is it normal when a guy tries to stimulate his girl on the phone??? how does one deal with as such? what is he trying to do?
2007-03-15 19:26:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is only ok for your boyfriend to do that IF it's ok with you. He is trying to have Phone sex with you. If your comfortable with it, go ahead, it can be a fun way of expressing your love to each other, and to release without actually touching each other, so you'll be able to keep your innocence. If your not comfortable with it, be honest with him, let him know your not into that kind thing. If he truly loves you, he can respect that, if he cannot accept your wishes, he isn't for you. Hope that helps!!! Good luck!
2007-03-15 19:37:49 · answer #1 · answered by Jerbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its just as normal as any other type of stimulation, cause in the end its all mental anyway... if u are not there mentally, u know the rest... and its a great way to find out what each other likes and dislikes. another reason is it might be easier for him to express himself that way than to just ask them about it... i hope i helped somewhat... lol
2007-03-15 19:31:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a guy who when I heard his voice on the other end of the phone, no matter what he was saying, I was INSTANTLY stimulated, for I was IN LOVE!!!
2007-03-15 19:29:05 · answer #3 · answered by soccergirl47546 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol like phone sex? haha I think its fun, I do it every once in a while to spice up the phone conversations. Don't do it if you feel uncomfortable. He has to be really good at lulling you into that sexy mood where you just wanna sex things up, otherwise if he's not good at it, tell him it makes you uncomfortable and that you'd rather do that kinda stuff in person if anything.
2007-03-15 19:31:50 · answer #4 · answered by pyroman162 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking about phone sex? I guess it's ok. If you're talking about using a phone during sex well, I don't know what to tell you. Whatever makes you happy I suppose.
2007-03-15 19:29:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong wth that as long as they already have a relationship, its like he is heating up the dinner before he gets home because he might be very hungry and there is nothing as good as having a hot meal when you arrive home from working hard outside.
2007-03-15 19:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if it bothers u that he talks dirty to u, tell him. tell him ur not comfortable with it. either that, or just dont talk to him on the phone anymore.
2007-03-15 19:30:13 · answer #7 · answered by waterlily750 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is ok he may be tring to get you to come over to get your freak on!
2007-03-15 19:29:07 · answer #8 · answered by â?¥ Pawya! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fine. He is trying to pleasure you while he is away. Probably himself, too.
2007-03-15 19:31:38 · answer #9 · answered by Phartzalot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah thats normal
2007-03-15 20:05:12 · answer #10 · answered by antish_r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋