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for 16 years we have not communicated to each other, though we have an egroup for our batch. we constantly communicate through text just to say hi and hello and updating our reunion...
Suddenly he broke up with his long time girlfriend (9yrs) and supposed to be their scheduled to get married this year.. but he caught her up with another man.. according to him this is the second time the girl have done this to him. so he decided to broke up with her...
He then started to text me. and we see each other for the first time and he told me evrything.. he knows all about me that i am separated also for 3 years with kids...
That was not the first time we saw each other.. we constantly date. watch movie, go to comedy bar.. eat..
we become textmates and he even bougth a sim where he can call me evry night...
I would admit that i started to fall in love with him.. he says he enjoys my company, he is happy and he dont want to loose me but he says its too early to know if that is LOVE

2007-03-15 19:19:37 · 1 answers · asked by crystalink 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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I think this guy is honest with you. He is telling you he is not ready now, which is totally normal for me.

He just broke 9 years old relationship up. If it wasn't for her cheating on him, they could've been married already.

Give the guy sometime and let him feel comfortable with no stress or pressure from your side.

If you think after a while it's a long time that he's taking, then just talk to him about if there is a future between you two and tell him what you want.

If he is still not ready, keep friends with him and try to find someone else.

2007-03-15 19:28:05 · answer #1 · answered by peachy 4 · 0 0

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