if a girl is a virgin who is saving herself would you remember her more? I'm asking cuz I am that type of girl, the one who is saving herself for marriage. Even though my ex was the one who ended our relationship, he still talks o me sometimes. He even wants to hangout sometimes as well. Is it cuz he likes that I'm a good girl? and does that make me different from other girls he's dated? He' 26, I'm 20.
2007-03-15 19:12:25 · 12 answers · asked by sweet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Does he still kinda like me?
2007-03-15 19:13:10 · update #1
possibly, I'd say she would be more memorable to me if she was a virgin. Its a good thing, you should keep it till marriage if you can. Its very rare that you find 20 year old woman who are still virgins. So yeah, you will be remembered.
2007-03-15 19:15:45 · answer #1 · answered by pyroman162 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy. I think that a girl who's saving herself for marriage would be all the more special. i would remember a girl better for something like that. my ex fiance broke up with me almost a year ago. of the 2 of us i was the virgin. but what i'm trying to say to you is that saving yourself can take focus, and determination. I mean, look at the world we live in. it's RARE to see a virgin at your age. it's also a very special thing. you don't want to lose that on a whim or a sper of the moment thing. you want it to have meaning. it's a rare gift you have. treasure it
2007-03-16 02:21:05 · answer #2 · answered by fullmetal479 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he broke up with you, and he's still talking to you, he definetely considers you quality. I know because the same thing happened to me. I am simply in your shoes. I am a virgin also.
Be proud about it and NEVER let it go until you're a virgin. I know my ex considers me quality because he's not the type that dates those girls that sleep with any guy on the block.
He may not love you, but don't push it. Your individuality makes you special. Your courage to not succumb to simple desires makes you even more irresistable.
Stay friends with him, but let him know you are looking around not just for anybody but for quality.
I'm not going to say good luck, because if you can come this far, you surely can stick through it longer!
2007-03-16 02:22:21 · answer #3 · answered by AroseC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my point of view as a man I would truely say that I would probably have more respect for a girl for not giving it up. Your O.K. wanting to stay a virgin and when you do get married the man you marry will defineately respect you even more and defineately better your marriage also! Please don't give in or he'll just put you on his list of conquers more then likely! Thye old saying goes "why buy the cow", if you can get the milk for free!.
2007-03-16 02:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youve officially become a conquest.
He might like you but I know what he likes more, the idea of deflowering you.
I dont care if youre a virgin or not, Im going to remember whether you were nice to me, mean, exciting, or a complete bore.
Its nice to have a good girl, but a guy has his wants and needs all the same, and if its sex he'll just get it elsewhere.
And in the mean time he'll probably try to get you to jump off the ledge and forget your committment to waiting until you get married.
Goodluck, its going to be tough.
2007-03-16 02:17:07 · answer #5 · answered by Thats me...A to the D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your choice to maintain your virginity; but i seriously think he merely wants to be friends. For better or worse men tend to view the success of their relationships sexually. No sex, no success. You are pretty much locked into a platonic relationship with him. However, this is not to say that one day when he is ready to settle down he won't remember your purity and try to rekindle the ole flame... There are girls you date; and there are girls you marry. Good luck!
2007-03-16 02:39:57 · answer #6 · answered by D4gotten1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably just wants to have sex with you, so that he can tell all his friends that he did it with a virgin. I'm 21, not saving myself for marriage but I am still a virgin. I just haven't found a guy who doesn't want to control me...most of the guys I've dated seemed so nice at first, but then after a while they just wanted to control me, they called every half an hour, or hour and one kept showing up at my place of employment. Both of them wanted to control my life, and I don't like it when men think they can control me.
2007-03-16 02:16:20 · answer #7 · answered by Shannon A 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Whatever he may be to you, he does like talking to you and even hang out with you. He never stopped liking you. He may be 26, but having a casual friendship with you is probably the safest thing he could ever do.
2007-03-16 02:24:27 · answer #8 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls love to make love but Guys make love to love...what's your sentiments is only your own fantazy....men hang out with girls who has no string attached and unthreaten...nothing to do with your virginity.
2007-03-16 02:18:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means that he might want to keep you around because you just might let him hit it one day. however him breaking up with you makes it okay to sleep with other females since you are not giving it up. whatever you might do just use a condom honey!!!!
2007-03-16 02:18:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋