So me, a friend and this girl who's friends with my friend went to see a movie yesterday and we kinda started holding hands which ended up at the end of the night as kissing, not like little grandma kisses, more like long kisses kisses. When I dropped her off at home with my friend its waqs just kind of like "cya later". So today I think I cought her off guard but I asked if yesterday ment anything. She said she didnt know and that it caught her really off guard. Then I asked her if she wanted to see a movie with another of my friends. She said sure but not to expect anything to happen again. So I asked her if she liked me as a friend and she said of cource then I asked if there could be more and she said she didnt know. She said not right now and theres no for sure and she didnt want to lead me on too much since its totally contradictory to last night... at first its like shes not sure then it goes to theres nothing there right now. She did say she wanted to go see a movie tomorrow.
2007-03-15 19:02:32 · 4 answers · asked by teh_masta_of_all 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im trying to decide if that means she could be interested and I may have a chance. Or if she just wants to hang out as friends. Either way I need to drive with her for about 20 minutes by ourselves tomorrow any tips on what I should say to not make the drive 100% akward lol?
2007-03-15 19:03:17 · update #1
i dont think there is anything you can say that wont cause an arward moment. wait a bit, but dont wait to long a week or two at most. if she doesn't come around move on and keep in touch from time to time.
2007-03-15 19:12:36 · answer #1 · answered by Lost Drifter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too serious, too fast doesn't work with some girls. It sounds like you may have scared her off a little bit. Try to play it cool and talk to her as if she is just a good friend. She knows now that you are interested so let her come to you. Good luck.
2007-03-16 02:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so right now she just wants to be friends. She may have lead you on, but I guess she realized sh edidn't like you like that. Respect this. If she doesn't want anything, don't force it. She might want something later on, so don't rush. In the car just talk about life and whats going on like jobs, friends, school (?), anything that you are comfortable tlaking about
2007-03-16 02:09:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably just felt guilty for not building a relationship up with you first. Or she's playing hard to get.
She's into you, but probably needs to be friends with you before she can do anything major.
Good Luck!
2007-03-16 02:18:18 · answer #4 · answered by Joy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋