I had been with my ex boy- for 6 yrs and we broke up!....Im really hurt I cant stop thinking about him, sometimes I feel that im going to be ok but other times I feel that I wont! Please help
2007-03-15 19:01:38 · 5 answers · asked by Ms Romance 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hunny, it will all be ok , i promise! It will take some time to heal your heart. Breaking up always feels like the end of the world for at least 3 months. But by about 6 months from now i can garranty that you will be a different person, you would of had time to think about the reasons why it didnt work.
I dont know the reason why you broke up but really think about the things that you werent happy with in the relationship that you would like in your future relationships even though your not in that frame of mind but when you are think about it.
You deserve only the best in life and no less, remember that!!! Everyone is special and you just have to believe in yourself. Keep your chin up there is many people in this world that love you and they dont have know you. Like me. God Bless you.
Remember your beautiful.
2007-03-15 19:16:28 · answer #1 · answered by Nat555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh wow, this is some pretty serious stuff.
Well depending on who broke up with who, i suggest that you talk to him , believe me if you keep it inside and wait for your feelings to fade, it doesn't work as nicely as you think. Tell him how you feel, even if he doesn't feel the same way - let him know, he might be going through the same thing. If not then just allow yourself to heal, and have fun being single - it's not going to be easy , but it's all a part of life. The only way to get over someone is to move on. So when the time is right you'll meet someone great, and all the pain will be worth it. I'm sorry you're going through this, but just let life take it's way, everything will be okay.
I wish you the best of luck with everything.
2007-03-16 02:14:13 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny** 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happend to me. We were together for six years, had one 6 month old baby, and 4 months pregnant with his kid again. Turns out he got with one of my school friends, had sex with her, and I had a horrible,horrible,and may I repeat horrible misscariage. Six months later he ended up cheating on her with me, we got in a car accident, he became paralized, and we got back together. It took alot but if you really love him and you all were ment to be, then things will work themselves out. It may take awhile and you may have to go through some drastic sh*t, but if you love him, it will happen cuz it was obviously ment to be. Good luck!P.S. I read the one answer that said to go have sex with a bunch of people. I wouldn't suggest that cuz it only makes you feel worse. I do agree with the other one that said to do things to keep ur mind off of him(if you even could.......I know sweetie).
2007-03-16 02:12:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get over this is to go out and screw the he*l outta somebody. Sex makes you feel better and sex with someone else makes you forget somebody else!
2007-03-16 02:09:21 · answer #4 · answered by todd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep youself busy.work on other stuffs like cleaning your house or redecorating you room... hang out with your friends and meet other people...
2007-03-16 02:10:01 · answer #5 · answered by DruNkStripPeR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋