2007-03-15 18:41:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You guys don't have to have exactly the same beliefs in order to get along..In fact you should be your own individual
2007-03-15 18:45:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you don't push your idea on how life is onto him, and he doesn't try to mold you into something he wants, you'll be ok. It's easy to agree to disagree, but then you must drop the subject. Let him be who he is, and do not hold him to your expectations. If you two can't let the other be who you are, then it might be a good idea to just be friends until you can learn to accept eachother as you are and for who you are. If you cannot do that, I'm availa... nah, but you know what I'm gettin' at. Don't expect too much from the other, especially if the other cannot be what either one wants.
2007-03-15 18:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by fingerssfv 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Balance.
It will, of course, depend on how stringently you both adhere to your own personal philosophies and how willing you both are to welcome each others' perspectives.
He is yin and you are yang. But there is common ground. You, for example, don't believe it's ok to kill someone. He might even be amenable to skinny dipping.
But you can be perfect for each other because you can balance each other. He can help you to learn to be a little more traditional when it might be beneficial to you. You can help him open up and experience more passion in life.
The key lies in accepting and, even, embracing your differences. You need to not judge each other for your opposing views. If you can do that you can both give each other wonderful opportunities to learn more about yourselves, each other, and the world in general.
You're not likely to be able to do that with someone who echoes your own views.
2007-03-15 18:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by ophelliaz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live your life how you want. Focus and acknowledge what you love about him, especially the little things.
Don't focus on his "reality"
If you keep acknowledging, thanking and even "rewarding" those little things you love about him, he'll do more and more of that. Soon, your "reality" of him will change because he'll be spending so much time doing what you love, there will be little time to do anything else.
2007-03-15 18:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by totalbalance4u 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Recognizing your differences can be a start, and then accepting them. It's a given, he just has to get used to it, not to actually understand this that women are more intuitive and that they are more factual, and all the variations in between. The differences are the key to making it and keeping it interesting, if he can't accept that, there will be no more than future dissappointments and frustrations. Have the talk, and then sex. It kinda seals everything.
2007-03-15 18:46:22 · answer #5 · answered by Pivoine 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can help each other in the area that each of you is best at. You're good at making a good life for yourself and he's good at practical matters. I think it could be a good relationship if you guys appreciate the others talents.
2007-03-15 18:45:10 · answer #6 · answered by the Boss 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would think that reality has to take presidence eventually. But you can still work to change what you feel needs changing.
2007-03-15 18:45:07 · answer #7 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yin and Yang
2007-03-15 18:44:33 · answer #8 · answered by altered ego 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see life as you see, kick his *** and contact someone who see life as you see, me!!!
2007-03-15 18:48:02 · answer #9 · answered by vespan 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it can be a good relationship if you can appreciate each other.
2007-03-15 18:50:35 · answer #10 · answered by jasmine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋