2007-03-15 18:38:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People can blame whoever they want. The point is, if you want to stay with him you must tell him that he either changes his attitude or it's over.
People like that don't change unless they are given a choice. He will NEVER change on his own.
2007-03-15 18:54:35 · answer #1 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy. I use to think very selfishly. I was insecure of everything, especially my g-friend. We get like this because we are immature at times. Along with being insecure, we have a tendency to put girls down and verbally shut them out.
Now, Im not Dr. Phil (I would have jumped off a bridge by now), but I bet there is either some drinking, cheating or both going on in the relationship. I could be totally wrong! I just know how I used to be and why.
2007-03-16 01:44:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the second time I've seen you . you need to set this man down and lay the law down you carry the prize that he wants to win if you know what I mean, don't give it up until he changes his selfish ways. And if he leaves he will be doing you a favor. you can do better than that imature boy.
stop being unhappy it's time for you to be happy and live for yourself.
Tia
2007-03-16 01:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by Desi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is what you should be asking him.
Instead of pointing out what he allows or doesn't allow or how it affects you, keep telling him that he is selfish. Make him ask you the reason why.
Most likely he doesn't think he is selfish and that is what you want to address.
2007-03-16 01:42:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be anything the way he was raised maybe hes parents spoiled him but in my honest opinion everybody is selfish sometimes .tell him next time that if he doesnt listen walk off.dont speak to him for awhile until you both are ready to talk.
2007-03-16 01:42:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you marry him? Were u expoecting to change him? If so, then u made a bad decision. HE'll stay the way he was when you met him. So, If you wanna be heard, Stay single, or else lie down.
2007-03-16 20:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by k.webb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who knows but,, most likey hes been in his past mistreated and its not anyones fault now but he needs tender loving care and honesty and you have to call him up and be a good sole and tell him it bugs you a lot, that you love to yack too,
good luck,, most men never ever ever get special love or attention,, females have this retarted beleif that we dont deserve it, so we become peeved and do what we want , go were we want and to bad for the weak... o well,, men rule,, and gals drool lol tc
2007-03-16 01:45:20 · answer #7 · answered by wgggn_babyjim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think his parents. When we still young our parents teaches us to be what we are going to be in future therefore if your parents allow you to rule them and have the last word on everything you'll get used to that and you'll expect everyone to treat you like that o
2007-03-16 01:48:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is frustrated, because he can''t solve his own problem, he is lost because because he want success, to be powerful, but he still lost in this wonderful world, you got a guy maybe very beatiful in apperence, but completely empty inside(soul)You should try me, to see the diferece!!!
2007-03-16 01:58:05 · answer #9 · answered by vespan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is sad to say, but women that deal with it. If he knows that he can get away with his actions, then he will. Let him know how you feel, if he don't change (more and likely he won't) than move on.
2007-03-16 01:44:54 · answer #10 · answered by berrymya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋