Ok so here's the story. My class ends at 3:15 and my boyfriend lives about 5 minutes from school. I have a class at 4:30pm and 7pm and the 4:30 one is soo boring and the lecture notes are online so I basically don't have to attend class, so I usually go hang out with my boyfriend at his house. My class got let out early (2:45 instead of 3:15) so I went over to my boyfriend's house and his car wasn't there. Here's the big problem. My boyfriend refuses to purchase a cell phone. He's convinced that we've lived all these years without one and he's doing perfectly fine without one now, so he doesn't need to buy one. So I'm sitting in his driveway, waiting. I call his house thinking that MAYBE he might be home and his car is with someone else, but no one's home. I wait, wait wait. I waited 45 minutes and decided that if he's not going to come home, I might as well go to my class. At 4:30 he calls me from an unknown number, saying that.....
2007-03-15 18:37:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
....he's helping his friend out with a photo shoot for his class and he won't be home till after 5. He said "I hope you didn't swing by my house and I'm sorry if you did." I told him that I won't be seeing him today because I will be attending both my classes. He said ok and we hung up. Deep down, I am very upset. I know he called, but he knows that every tuesday and thursday I am at his house from 3:15 until 7ish. I know he apologized, but am I overreacting by being angry that he didn't give me a heads up? He doesn't know i waited 45 minutes, and he's STILL not home for me to call him or talk to him! What do I do?
2007-03-15 18:40:00 · update #1
start by chilling out for a min, its not the end of the world you know!! there are so many ppl out there who dont even have a home and u r here worried cause u couldnt c him for one day....take a reality pill hun
2007-03-15 18:42:30 · answer #1 · answered by Onie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may feel like you're over reacting but I don't think you are. If he knew we were to be coming over by his house at a certain time he should've called you from long. It could be that he is over by a next girls house or doing something with a next girl. I know you say that he said he's helping a friend do something, if he really was I don't think he would take that long knowing that you was suppose to be by his house unless he's with another girl.
2007-03-23 20:07:56 · answer #2 · answered by Baby S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't trip on that girl, I know it hurts because you wanted to spend time with him, but you have to understand you aint gonna be able to watch in 24/7....Don't trip because it's just gonna start something big which might cause you to break up, seems like you care about the guy so try not to aruge...unless you feel he did you wrong or something..
2007-03-23 23:19:52 · answer #3 · answered by Giovanna R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reverse the thing let him know how it feels disappear for a while and say things like if you had a cell phone i could have called you. i find being a mirror is the best way to show people how they look.
2007-03-24 00:52:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like a guy is cheating on you, he usually is. That woman gut instinct feeling thing tends to defy rational thought and I have no idea why.
2007-03-23 22:55:16 · answer #5 · answered by Serena L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are overreacting , he should have the common courtesy to let you know that he wouldn't be home knowing your routine to come by especially..Hope things work out for you...
2007-03-23 23:41:48 · answer #6 · answered by That Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not overreacting.i would do the same thing .but you need to tell him
how you fell about what happened.
2007-03-16 01:54:12 · answer #7 · answered by cmm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. he was just busy, that's all. i see why you are so upset, i would be too.
2007-03-24 01:19:09 · answer #8 · answered by Caitlin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋