What should I....?

Question

What should I look for while looking for a girlfriend? If I want a girlfriend that is beautiful, lots of girls are beautiful. If I want a girlfriend that is beautiful and caring and intelligent. Lots of girls can be beautiful, caring, and intelligent. How can I differentiate girls from other girls? They all have the same personality. All girls can choose to be evil also. If I choose only beauty and funny, all girls can be beautiful and funny. any ideas please? I don't know what to look for in a girl as a girlfriend anymore. What qualities got you attracted to your intimate partner? What qualities do you like about your boyfriend or girlfriend?

Answer 1

Guess what hon, not a lot of girls are beautiful, caring, intelligent, funny. Basically you want a "dream girl". The kind you'd find in any mushy Disney movie. Really, if you're looking seriously, you need to have flexible qualities. Of course I'm not saying go out and date a drug dealing prostitute. Only a select few can deal with that. But don't be so shallow. Otherwise you'll find the one for you and pass her up.

Meanwhile, I have a man. He's perfect to me and that's all the matters.

Answer 2

You dont need to look, you will feel it in your heart and you know what qualities you like in your girl. No one needs to tell you, just dont rush into things, take things slow, do not commit till you feel it in your heart you are ready. Dont trust anyone, girls can be faithful when they like you a lot, but for some reason today love takes long to come, everyone is running wild, and loose!

1. Start of with respect.
2. Make boundaries clear, as far as what is crossing over the line.
3. What qualities you have you need to look for in someone else.
4. Have great communication, and learn to be open to constructive criticizm.
5. If you are a person whom has self confidence its a turn on.
6. If you understand how important it is to work, make sure your partner knows the same, not unless you can afford to support both with your income.
7. Dont go after a woman whom has to always be out on the streets w/her friends, and doesnt trust you, you wont be able to make her a good house wife. Who knows? Them kind of women are ungreatful, and demand a lot, and expect a lot from you when you come from work, nagg, nagg, and b****. If you decide to find someone like this, she will end up blowing your money on getting her nails done, hair, keep you from your family because no one will ever like her. Not to mention she will not be a good mother, because she came from the street's, some turn out ok, they are used to drama. I dont care how hot she is, you will be making a big mistake. One more thing not to mention will drive you crazy, because they become a threat, and they are not all that but scum, while you are trying to make her a housewife something she will never understand, because she will want you to play Cinderfella!
8. Make sure she is sensitive and understanding.
9. She keeps herself up.
10. Respects your privacy, and belonging's, same goes for you.
11. Be honest, and open.
12. A secret women learn from mom's a man should never be told everything because he will throw it at your face. Let her know you dont want secrets in her life.
13. What she did in the past has nothing to do with you.
14. What she does when she is with you that's your concern.
15. Love her unconditionaly.
16. Remind her how special she is so you will be treated with the same care.
17. Most of all that is real important TRUST is the keyword to a healthy relationship.
18. Dont give her reasons to not trust you.
19. A card to remind her you care, and flowers to keep the home feeling fresh with love in the air.
20. Important for you both to have great hygene.
21. To be positive in all things and never speak negative, and use profanity.
22. When she does tell you she needs her space give it to her, and demand the same.
23. When you see her flipping leave the house and tell her you need a break.
24. If you get into a relationship with someone who could mess up your reputation, you notify the police you had to leave your home because of indiferencess at home, some women are evil and will call the police when you leave that you touched them wrongly to ruin you, and will hit themselves to have evidence. I know evil, I have seen this happen to my friends when they leave the home angry to leave the dog alone...Because some women turn fatal.
25. Very important to study the female, as soon as you see red tape signs, get counseling, or move on out of the relationship as quick as you can...

Answer 3

Look for that 'spark'... don't worry about beauty. If you look for a beautiful woman, and she turns out to be unpleasant, she'll start to look ugly. If you find someone that you care about, you'll see that she IS beautiful, you just didn't notice at first :)

Answer 4

Don't go around looking for women based on qualties, look for the connection with her. It will make it more personal, and feel less like shopping around and comparing items.

My boyfriend is amazing, funny and caring, but what made me want to date him was how we clicked, the spark and connection.

Good luck, trust your instincts.

Answer 5

Just look for some one you are comfortable being yourself with. Looks are not everything. They could be hot and inteligent but, be a total B**ch. No one is perfect, but I would like to be in a relationship where it seems I'm walking on egg shells.

Answer 6

it's ok to have an ideal gf or bf, for that matter. but don't push yourself that hard to find one. she will be infront of you before you know it. she may not be your ideal one, but if she's the one for you, you will say goodbye to all your criteria, without you knowing it. sometimes it sounds silly, but most people end up with someone far from his standards because of that stupid thing called magic spark. it happens all the time, and i'm a happy example.

Answer 7

How can anyone else tell you what you are looking for?

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