I really really like this kid, and for a while i thought it was mutual, we messed around before and hes acually kissed me for no reason(to me I cant kiss someone if I dont have feelings for him) Ive caught him staring at me like if i was across the room,if i mention other guys, even though there just friends he kinda gets moody.But the other day I told I had to talk to him,we sat down and talked and i told him how I felt and asked if he felt the same, he replied no, then i asked what he thought of us all the things we did (messing around) what it was all about, he said...I DONT KNOW.He even mentioned somthing about another girl,and smiled when he said it and him and I have never been that open with each other. what does it mean, Did he ever like me? Does he still, but wont admit it? or was I just being played for a sucka?
2007-03-15 18:09:06 · 5 answers · asked by abz-baby23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ive always thought of him for his birthday i got him things Christmas Valentines day, I mean i know its not about buying things but, those were little ways of showing my appriciation, Ive even given him a poem that was titled (When a girl is in LOVE) and under it I put (so what maybe Im just scared to death because you mean so much to me, more than any other person,Your everthing I think about, everything I want,so maybe jus maybe Im scared because i know at any minute you can just walk away)and yes we have had sex.....(messing around)
2007-03-15 18:43:36 · update #1
i personally think you got played....he obviously has a thing for the other girl if it brought a smile to his face when he talked about her. sorry but now you can move on and find someone who actually wants to be with you and appreciates you.
2007-03-15 18:15:16 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♫§weetTart§amantha♫♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
You are very mature to have confronted him, but unfortunately he is not, and was probably playing you for a joke. Stay away from guys like that. They find happiness in having girls liking them and then turning down the girl. If you ever want a guy to like you here is the trick. This is like the only trick that works. Always play "HARD TO GET". Guys will be actually interested in you if you show them that you don't care for them. If a guy starts talking to you, act casual and confident. DO NOT ever stare at a guy in class. That shows him that he has won you, and he will become bored. Give him something to chase after. Unfortunately for your friend, you should leave him be. He simply found out that you like him to soon. Always wait till the guy tells you he likes you. I hope this helps! Good luck!
2007-03-16 01:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by Batman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, girl, you were being played. Don't let him continue to play you. He told you he didn't feel the same but he wants to keep you around for the fringe benefits. Drop him! If he wants you, he's gonna have to work for it! Don't initiate conversation or anything. If he asks say, "I don't feel like getting played. Maybe you can go fool around with that other girl. Have a nice life" and turn and walk cooly away.
2007-03-16 01:14:07 · answer #3 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off kiddo,, you have to stop to think how un nice you were over the visit or always nice today most girls are mean and cold and uncarling and we all know that feelings are miss judged sometimes really fast ,, between the opposite sex it probably means the girl,, uuuuu really didnt show that much affection to scared if he wants to make out or not, and when girls are happy and turned on we all know what happens so did it?? g l
2007-03-16 01:22:09 · answer #4 · answered by wgggn_babyjim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes men just want pussy soon as you came to him like that you scared him off
2007-03-16 01:16:39 · answer #5 · answered by T maine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋