I love this girl and I wanna marry her. We even go on trips together (europe, VA beach, NY... ).She keeps breaking up with me because of my origines. What should I do?
2007-03-15 17:46:02 · 17 answers · asked by John 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you ever talked to her about marriage. If her family is old-fashioned, you have almost 0% chance anyway.
And yes, some Asian people are like that. The ones I know are not racist, they are xenophobic. They are just afraid of others because of their childhood environment. It is not their fault, but it is a problem. Maybe you should explore whether or not it is even a possibility before you go any further.
Good luck. I have already been there. It isn't easy. You can only do it if you TRULY desire to be there for her through everything, and there will probably be a lot. And these people take marriage VERY seriously. You don't just marry her, you marry the family.
2007-03-15 18:00:06 · answer #1 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 02:32:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the hell is she even leaving the country with you and traveling with you if she has a problem with your color? She shouldnt have even exchanged numbers with you let alone traveled with you if she has an issue with race geezz. Whatever you do, dont kiss her a**. You cant change who you are. It makes a person think that she may have been dating you for the "experience" of being with a Black Man. You know they say Black Men are "well endowed", so maybe thats what she is trying to see. I'm sure she is getting feedback from her family & friends and their probably feeding into the common stereotypes about Black Men. Get with someone thats Black. I know you care for her but it's very difficult for Blacks to get respect from other races period so you shouldnt stress yourelf over someone who cant see past your skin. I know you feel me on that....
I hope eveything works out for you bro.
Peace
2007-03-15 17:58:23 · answer #3 · answered by Wisdom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world would you want to Marry someone that keeps breaking up with you and you "accuse" of being a Racist?
This sounds more like you are obsessed with her and it's a one sided love and desire situation.
Time to get a clue and find someone that wants you as much as you want them. I almost wonder if this is just an absurd post bent on sensationalism.
I mean,.....it's hard to seem you are for real if you can't see the obvious and use common sense or logic.
2007-03-15 17:52:18 · answer #4 · answered by The Sylvan Wizard 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You don't really love her...you just want to get into her pants. Why can't you find a girl of your own race, then both of you would be happy. If she is your, "ex-girlfriend", like you say, then forget her and move on with your life.
It is plain to see, that she doesn't want to marry you, and for good reason too, so forget her and find one that does care about you. You will be happier in the long run.
2007-03-15 17:56:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
EX the drama queen, Sounds like she just wants to have some down time, but she is not interested in taking your relationship to the next level, So! take the hint , and find you another lover that can love you for Who and What you are.
Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-15 18:02:06 · answer #6 · answered by Tennessee Mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry but this girls an idiot, i think u should not only find somebody else to luv (who respects you and doesnt show such ignorance) but stop talking to her for good!
Comon man....I mean, she was with you, she goes on trips but she has a problem with your origines??? What kind of BS is that??
2007-03-15 17:53:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry mate but if she can't accept you for the way you are then is she really worth the time.? You are who you are and nobody should change that.
2007-03-15 17:50:33 · answer #8 · answered by Elyse h 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
why would you want to marry a girl who is racist to you? i think you should find someone else who doesn't care about your ethnicity like her. what if she later on wants a divorce?
2007-03-15 17:50:04 · answer #9 · answered by jkl; 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
If she can't love you enough to stay with you then she just isn't the one for you. You need to find someone who loves you for who and what you are. You can't change your color.
2007-03-15 17:53:25 · answer #10 · answered by w_breezy34 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋