me and my boyfren hv been together for nearly 3 yrs.. he had another relationship wit another girl which lasted half a year it ended early this year... he has this myspace profile which was used to get to know that girl and he's still a frequent user.. so I tend to question him alot abt that and he don't like it.. in fact he hates it when I do that.. he said dat i nag a lot.. wat do i do???
2007-03-15 17:42:06 · 12 answers · asked by lydiana84 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he did it once he is more likely to do it again. If he is on myspace then he is trolling for someone else I think.
2007-03-15 17:44:39 · answer #1 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is better not to nag or question strongly, it irritates the other person. U may use other simpler and more effective methods of surveillances available, and if u find he is cheating, take action that is required. Just suspicion may break a relationship and leave a lot of bad taste in the mouth.
2007-03-16 00:46:40 · answer #2 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youhave not been together with this guy for 3years, the loser was cheating on you with another girl for 6 months of that time!!! Question him? Dump him. Send him to his home planet "Loserville" ... alone would be better. You can do better than this. Good luck -k-
2007-03-16 00:52:24 · answer #3 · answered by kbama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to learn to trust someone is if BOTH of you are trying... you can't learn to trust someone that isn't doing his/her part to help the other person trust them... so this is something that you and your BF need to talk about together... be honest with him, let him know what your insecurities are and ask him to work with you to help you learn to trust him again... it will not work if he doesn't try with you..... Good Luck.....
2007-03-16 00:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by ***Girlie Girl*** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ultimately you have to protect yourself.
Give him his personal space (sorry for the pun) but don't be blind to the fact if he's actually cheating on you.
There is no hard and fast rules about relationships. That's what makes them so hard to fathom.
2007-03-16 00:47:56 · answer #5 · answered by michael2003c2003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is like taking a leap of faith you walk into and find it unexpectantly and you have to remember the past is the past and if your in love you have today and tomorrow and forever so the next time you want to ask him instead just look at him and smile and say i love you
2007-03-16 00:48:12 · answer #6 · answered by mtpt7273 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because there no trust, and when there is not trust , then it
will be not a good situation to be in. talk to him and let him
know how you feel about this.
2007-03-16 00:57:10 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump his *** because he cheats on you and doesn't really want to be with you anymore???? maybe that. or turn the other cheek, or a blind eye, or whatever they say.
2007-03-16 00:46:00 · answer #8 · answered by Ira S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the trust is gone...you do not trust him and he does not feel good with your suspicions;look for him to say good-bye very soon...
2007-03-16 00:46:05 · answer #9 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love someone,you will stop the jealousy.
2007-03-16 00:45:25 · answer #10 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋