Should sex be treated as fun - i.e. you can have it with whomever you are attracted to - or should it be treated as sacred, i.e. it should be reserved for your significant others only.
2007-03-15 17:36:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sex is and should be fun, but that doesn't mean you should have it with whomever you find attractive. Jeebus man.
When you have it with the right person... the love of your life, the One, so to speak, it becomes sacred whether you're a virgin or not.
2007-03-15 17:40:01 · answer #1 · answered by Buying is Voting 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sacred
However sacred does not have to mean exclusivity!
I had a beloved friend/sister who comes from a very different culture than ours. She had a unique position in the clan because she was a sexual healer. This was not a casual anybody thing. It was a tribal system with a council.
She loved her work and although she was retired three times, she missed it and returned to it each time until her final last few years. A man who had lost his wife or his family, a man who had no sense of value, a young man who had to be taught finesse before marriage, a man terminally ill who needed the tender touch that healed his soul even if only temporarily.
She was not a slutte She was truly a healer and honoured. Three years after her death she is remembered with love and missed by family, many children and grandchildren, friends and her last husband who retired her. I miss her wit, her ringing laughter, her insightful advice and delicacy of spirit.
For me, personally, exclusivity is a sign of commitment. When someone gives it away they are not valuing themselves.
2007-03-16 01:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by Noor al Haqiqa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sacred
2007-03-16 00:42:29 · answer #3 · answered by sweetiepie_cal_5 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have you heard of HIV/Aides ? Its the death sentence to just wanna Have some fun with whomever! Therefore, the answer to your question is simply this , Sex is awesome, beautiful, and yes it should be very sacred between two people that are significant to one another .
2007-03-16 00:53:03 · answer #4 · answered by Tennessee Mom 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
AAudiphil, after you have been around a little longer you will realize that sometimes we treat sex as entertainment and sometimes we treat it as a sacred and beautiful thing. This is a very very good question and one that really makes me admit that I have done both. I prefer to treat sex as sacred. Because Iike how I feel after. When I have used it as "fun" I would sometimes feel cheap. Good luck to you thanks for the good question - i'm starring this one -k-
2007-03-16 00:46:09 · answer #5 · answered by kbama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well everyone person is different and hold diff views on this sort of thing. Some married people swing and have been married for 20 years, happily! (not me). lol You can view it how you want, just make sure the person you have having sex with views it the same way, or their could be problems. I dont see it any more sacred than even marriage. it is what it is, a pleasurable act used to make babies or pleasurable act used to bring two (3,4,5..) people together. haha
2007-03-16 00:45:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is sacred - it should be reserved for significant others. It loses its meaning if you just have sex with anyone. It's much more meaningful if you wait for the right person.
2007-03-16 00:40:36 · answer #7 · answered by Kim H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the person. Like if its someone u love then its fun/ sacred. If its with that you've known for a bit then its just fun.
2007-03-16 00:46:58 · answer #8 · answered by Enid 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a little bit of both. These days you cant "be a slut" safely. You need to atleast know the person, and be comfortable enough to talk with them about history, and whatever, just so you know ur not going to get something. I personally think sex is fun, but also something that represents a closeness between two people. The best sex is with osmeone you love because they know you, your mind, and your body.
2007-03-16 00:41:29 · answer #9 · answered by Carolyn B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well i dont think its sacred enough to be reserved for married couples. but i only have sex with my girlfriend whom i love more than the world itself. it should only be between people that love each other not just people who want to get off
2007-03-16 00:40:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋