shes said she'd never cheat, shes not that type of person. But i know shes done coke before with a guy at his house..Would coke make a loyal girlfriend cheat? She denies it. I just dont like the early morning hangin out drinkin and doin coke with a guy i think likes her. She lied the other nite and i caught her. I asked her if she wanted to come stay the nite after she got off at 130am, she said she was tired and was going home for bed. 10 minutes later i talked to her she said she wasgoin to another bar with her girlfriend. I thought somethin was up, i went over to the guys place and she was there. She said she lied because she knew id get mad . Also she has pic of him on her phone and another occasion she was supposde to spend the nite and ended up calling me at 3am sayinshe was gonna stay over there and that she was laying down trying to sleep. she called me on the guys phone but said she was layin in sisters bed. Honestly i wanna believe her and kinda do, its just fishy.
2007-03-15 17:32:49 · 31 answers · asked by Carlos 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im sorry but she is definetly cheating, if she really loved you the way you seem to care for her she would not hang with that boy and she would stop doing coke to save her relationship. What does she love more you or the coke???????
2007-03-15 17:43:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she's high, don't believe a thing she says. Right after she comes down, she'll be a bit**. So, before her next score is the time to confront her with her actions and how fishy it all looks. Why does she want to get high? Something in her life isn't right and she's hiding it and hiding from it with coke.
Because coke makes you feel "SO-OO" good, a fake good, you feel like your life is completely under control. Only it isn't and you look like a fool. Do it enough times and you need the stuff to avoid real life, cause when you come down, the truth keeps being there, unchanged. In fact, it's a little worse and each time it gets a little worse.
Don't panic. Walk, don't run, away from that looser. There isn't anything you can do to fix her problem. And, it looks like coke is the way she thinks will fix it.
2007-03-15 17:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be the one to break this to ya ... but ....YES, COKE MAKES A LOYAL GIRLFRIEND CHEAT! ... Coke makes a normal person do things that they would never do if they were in their right mind. How do you think these all American girls turn into prostitutes? Just go out on the streets and ask them to tell you their story ...I did ... you will be amazed on how many say "I just started it for fun and I was always a good girl before then".
Listen ... from what little bit you wrote ... your getting played .
Go find a narconon meeting ... and you will begin to see just how bad your situation is ... Been there ...done that .... woke up.
But, there is also nothing wrong with confronting her with the situation and demand some semblance of responsibility on her part.
2007-03-15 17:40:30 · answer #3 · answered by Lone Knight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with her. First of all being with a girl that does drugs weather its a little or alot is a drug addict. Trust me I know I was your gf. I would always lie to my bf about where I was at what I was doing and what I was doing was cheating on him. I know that you prob care about her but you need to decide if you want to be with her knowing that she is out doing things that you may not agree with. Being with someone like that is hard and the more that she cont to do the things that see is doing is just going to be harder on your relationship. Trust me my bf didn't want to believe that I was doing anything wrong and I used that to my advantage and always made him find a way to trust me even though I was the one doing everything wrong behind his back while everyone knew and thought he was a big joke because he couldn't see the truth. You need to have her stop hanging out with that guy and stop doing drugs maybe get her some help..before she gets to deep into the coke.
2007-03-15 17:42:12 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you found her at the guy's place, then something is definitely up. If she lied to you about that, then just think of the other things that she has lied to you about so far. From the looks of it I say she is doing something behind your back with all that stuff going on: lying to you about staying at the guys, SLEEPING at the guy's house, CALLING you on the guy's phone, what's up with that!? A loyal girlfriend doesn't sleep over at another guy's house just for the hell of it! And to top it off, coke can distort her perception of things, and eventually it could lead to her getting taken advantage of by that other guy! Confront her about it and stand up for yourself and your emotions! Don't let her do this to you, and if you know that she's lied about a lot more and done a lot more, let her go and go out there to find somebody who is more worthwhile and not sleeping over at other guy's houses! Good luck!
2007-03-15 17:38:29 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♫BlondeRoCKeR♥♪ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, any kind of drugs can help make someone cheat. From what you have stated on your question. In my opinion she has cheated on you already. You have to ask yourself if you love her for who she is or what you want her to be. People can compramize but that can't change who they realy are. If she really loved you she would not need to lie because there should be trust first in a relationship.
Hope this helps...
2007-03-15 17:44:16 · answer #6 · answered by w_breezy34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your girlfriend should respect you enough to not lie, not stay up all hours with some other guy doing drugs, and actually spend time with you. Even if she's not sleeping with him, she ain't treating you right. She either is just too wrapped up in her own drama to care, or she isn't that into you. Either way, a bad idea for a girlfriend.
2007-03-15 17:36:27 · answer #7 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You caught her in a lie and you are still with her? Hmmm...why don't you give yourself a break and break up with the girl.. She's doing drugs...too. Bad news...Coke? Even worse...drugs mess you up and they mess up everyone who is involved with you. Do yourself a big favor and either get the girl help or leave her. I see trouble ahead.
2007-03-15 17:43:38 · answer #8 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do u have a problem with her doing coke?? maybe thats why she didnt tell you, and that guy was the only one who could take care of her with a drug issue, ya know??? which sorta sounds stupid; maybe he's wanting something, but shes just there for the...well the coke ya know?? addiction doesnt lead to cheating. believe her, and also, expect the unexpected just in case.
2007-03-15 17:36:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe u just don't fit into her life and her life style. If u keep on questioning her, she will lie. It is better to accept the fact, and if u are willing to continue the relationship u may, but u can't change her, nor can u take charge of her life.
2007-03-15 17:39:48 · answer #10 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋