I tend to frequently over think things. It is terrible habbit that I would like to break!
Specifically, there is this guy that I have liked for a few weeks. I can not stop thinking and over-analysing. It is really terrible, and I fear that it is going to ruin our relationship, or lack there of. I act differently when I think too much, not like myself. This pre-relationship is going better than anything in my life, and I really believe it is because I have been positive and completely myself. I don't want this to change! I am finding those worries all creeping up again, how can I fight this?! I have a good feeling about the relationship's potential, I don't want to ruin it!
Obviously this is because I am insecure, but of course I can change this. I worry about rejection [basically my biggest fear, ever], I worry a lot about getting hurt, I think WAY too far ahead, I over think what he says, I over think what I say... Advice??
2007-03-15 17:30:44 · 4 answers · asked by Amanda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try occupying your mind with something else. if he's not around, keep yourself busy with mental puzzles and such. if he IS around (like if you're on a date with him), just try to remember he's a guy and they dont tend to think too much (especially about anything they say) so i'd take his words for face value. good luck.
2007-03-15 17:36:00 · answer #1 · answered by fear of the dark 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best advice is to relax and breathe. Go to the gym..use the sauna...use the hot tub..anything to just relax yourself. You need to keep your mind off of those things. Just do something that will destress you like read a good book or relax in the tub. Bubbles are good...that's the best remedy. Do not worry too much and let life take it's course...things always happen for a reason. Be optimistic and enjoy life.
2007-03-15 17:40:59 · answer #2 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do issues that keep you busy. Play video games, watch action pictures, learn, get a job, play recreation, see acquaintances. Then your concepts wont be able to help thinking approximately those issues various the time extremely than annoying approximately annoying.
2016-10-18 12:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's wrong with thinking? did u know that only human beings have this ability and this is how we differ from animals? i say u re not doing anything wrong, if u stop thinking u will be considered dumb
2007-03-15 17:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋