My friend shamarria, (we call her shaq) went out with a guy named mikah. And about 3 weeks later, after she kissed him, he broke up with her. after she slept over his house! She didn't do anything though. And you know what excuse he used? oh my mom doesnt want us dating anymore so yeah, we are through....
She cried for the whole day at school. And someone told me that his last girlfriend; Ester, he used the same excuse. Me and my friend ashley warned her about him, but she didn't listen. Now she is hurt, and wants some revenge ideas,
anyone have any?
2007-03-15 17:27:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats really stupid. revenge does no good. let it be. shes gonna get hurt in her lifetime, and she cant always get revenge. just let the player go. hes stupid for doing that.
2007-03-15 17:30:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is a song called Look At What Ive Done To Her that might shed some light for you. The song is about a guy who thought that the girl he was with was a dead end thing and decided to leave her. At first she was miserable and angery and sad, but as time goes on she get over him and moves on. The last verse is something to the effect of how he see's her on the street one day, back to the girl she used to be when he fell in love with her, but this time it is another guy who is making her smile and luagh. And now she is a woman who doesn't need him and he is all alone... Moral of the story, revenge is never the best solution, and usualy leads to more pain for the person wants the revenge. The best way to handle the solution is to chalk up to a lesson learned and move on down the road.
2007-03-15 17:38:27 · answer #2 · answered by Smurfy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is immature but.......
Take a picture of all his ex-girlfriends he used that excuse on put it at the top. Then get his picture and put it on a dog then have a quote bubble with the excuse, and if you can take a picture of his mom and put a leash in her hand and put it all over the school. Or get a really pretty girl you'll know he'll like then after 2 days have her use the excuse on him.
PS. I think I could sen a model of the first one to your email... I'll try.
+ This is really immature but totally you and your friend's decision.
2007-03-15 17:35:18 · answer #3 · answered by k_carthran 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember revenge only harbors hatred. Is this guy really worth any more of your time or energy? I think if he is a user and he will eventually get his turn. It is not up to you or anyone to get back at him because what goes around comes around and he will pay. The best thing to do is just learn from this mistake and move on. Believe me even if you get revenge you will still feel empty inside. Let it go is my best advice. In time your friend will heal emotionally and hopefully learn to be a better judge of character.
2007-03-15 17:33:21 · answer #4 · answered by Toothie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ur still in school so I'm assuming ur still young, but honestly honey, revenge is a waste of time. Youre friend just needs to move on and realize theres a million guys out there, and yeah, stuff like that is going to happen. Just dont let it bother you. Girls these days need to realize that guys are not *** holes, theyre just different. Girls get taken advantage of because they rely too much on their significant other. We need to realize that we dont NEED a man in our life every second of every day. Stop looking for Mr Right, and just find Mr Right now. If its really something, that now will dissappear on its own.
2007-03-15 17:32:08 · answer #5 · answered by Carolyn B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly revenge isn't a good idea, because both sides would end up being hurt harder.
I say that she should move on, find a better guy and show of right on front of him... do what me and my girlfriend does... GO ALL OVER EACH OTHER!!!! That pisses off all the guys. Don't start any stupid high school drama... it's all going to hit you all back.
2007-03-15 17:31:26 · answer #6 · answered by Sir Guitarist 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do revenge, you'll regret it later. I'd just get over it and move on, just be sure that you nor anybody else you know falls into this again. He's being a player because he's too young and immature to be dating.
2007-03-15 17:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by cobra427jah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok , tell ur ex bf (the single she stole) to fulfill stay back with u after classification or some thing(make certain ur in college) and then get considered one of ur acquaintances to tell the boyfriend stealer tat teres some thing occurring in the class room , so as that she'll circulate examine it out.make certain u rouse ur ex bf, then circulate in for a kiss till u initiate making out , wen tat woman sees u she will have the skill to get soooooo annoyed. (lol i comprehend its an particularly immature concept yet i've got seen it achieved before and it completely labored.
2016-10-02 05:08:33 · answer #8 · answered by roser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah... get over it. Revenge isn't something that ever helps people.
Obviously he was just trying to get her to sleep with him, and since it didn't work, he dumped her.
And, maybe his mom doesn't want him dating girls that stay the night.
Just a maybe, though.
2007-03-15 17:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by Sylvie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there are plenty of ideas that could be used to humiliate and torment this fellow.but if they had been datin a lil over 3 weeks, why is she so attached. but if u wanna get him back, just tellall his friends hes tiny and she couldnt find it thats why nothin happoned.
2007-03-15 17:31:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls, don't even waist your time on an immature, little, prick. to be honest with you, do not ever look for serious relationship in schools, it will never work out, to many rumors. and guys they just try show off that way, especially in school. he have to brag to his friends how many girls he have been with, pleeaseeee. try to look for someone older. anyways, don't waist your time. what goes around, comes around. that is the best, true saying.
2007-03-15 17:37:35 · answer #11 · answered by Julia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋