i've known this guy for about 3/4 yrs now..we've been really close since the time we met, only a couple months after i met him..i reeeelly started liking him alot, n it was obvious .he liked me too!...we flirted like crazy for about a year or two....then i discovered i had to move to somehwree reely far so i had to change skoools...he was the 2nd person i told (after my best friend) and he was reeeelyy sad about it...then he admitted to me that he liked me and he had liked me for a long time...he nvr had the guts to tell me..but now dat im movin..he knew he had too....soooo the months b4 i left were absolutely amazing.....we were a couple but not officially a couple..holding handsss hugs & kisses..going out 2gthr etc etc...den i moved...we kept in touch..fone calls, emails, msn etc..but suddenly he stopped calling..msgs etc..we havent spoken in ages...he's not the "player" type..i noe him that well..but i duno why he's avoiding me!! HELP
2007-03-15 17:21:27 · 5 answers · asked by needanswers21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-03-15 17:21:56 · update #1
Distance only makes the heart grow fonder for so long.....and at some point, it is out of sight, out of mind.
I am sorry that it didn't work out, but it is probably for the best that you find someone to have a relationship with who actually lives in the same city as you. Good luck.
2007-03-23 16:50:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like since you've moved and never see each other he's cooled on the relationship. It doesn't mean there is someone else for him yet, it just means he's not as interested in a long-distance relationship. You should decide if you really want a long-distance thing and if you're sure you want it, tell him. See what he says.
In the long-run you should probably not be exclusive or anything like that as you'll meet new people where you are now. You could try being friends and if you're meant to stay in touch you will both make the effort. If not, it will die a natural death by you just not keeping up the contact with each other. Good luck either way.
2007-03-21 15:55:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe he realized that the long distance relationship isn't going to work. He might like you a lot but there could be a girl out there trying to tell him it's not going to work and he's better of with her. I think you should still try calling, emailing and all the other things you do. If a month passes and he doesn't try to get back to you then you'll know for sure that he has moved on.
2007-03-23 19:56:48 · answer #3 · answered by Baby S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has either found another girl, or he wants the freedom to find one. The expression, "The grass is always greener on the other side," applies here.
If he really liked you, then he would have made plans with you on how to keep your relationship going while he is away. It can also be that he does not see a way for the two of you to be reunited.
What you need to do is to ask him, straight away, if he has done any of what I said above. Tell him that if he does not wish to continue the relationship, that you will understand, and will not be upset.
Of course, you will be upset, but if you want him to talk, then you will have to give him that impression...that you are prepared to move on if he has already done so.
Sorry, but that's the way I see it.
2007-03-21 20:37:45 · answer #4 · answered by DrRJP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably has a girlfriend, like you said you werent an official couple.
2007-03-23 22:47:56 · answer #5 · answered by marie3681 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋