My husband is accusing me of having an abortion. It hurts me. I know it is haram. He demands divorce. Help!
2007-03-15 17:20:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Did you? if not proved him wrong and divorce him instead. When a husband lost trust in a wife, no point living together it will raised more conflicts and problems because the sacred trust is no longer there.
2007-03-15 17:24:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a Muslim, but I read the Quran and I know that's not okay to make false accusations of anyone.
Is there any way you could be examined by an OBGyn doctor? They should be able to tell if you had an abortion recently. Would your husband accept the word of a doctor?
2007-03-16 00:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by majnun99 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No that's not correct from what I know.
But why would you want to stay married to someone who is making false accusations on you anyway? Have you considered that he is either paranoid or trying to find any old reason to divorce you?
I say let him divorce you. I went through something similar with my ex-husband. That's a large reason that he's my EX.
2007-03-16 00:48:04 · answer #3 · answered by Midoria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Making false accusations on an innocent woman is one of the major sins in Islam.
2007-03-16 00:33:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. Your husband is in the wrong because he is a lier.
2. Why would you want to be married to a lier like him anyway? You should be the one filing for divorce.
2007-03-16 00:27:49 · answer #5 · answered by Roman Soldier 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
A doctor can prove him wrong, unless, of course, you had an abortion.
But Islam does favor men over women. Sorry. Next time be a Christian.
2007-03-16 01:08:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
In Islam, a husband has no respect for the person of a woman. She is merely there for his service and his pleasure. And if he decides that he does not want her, he can merely claim "divorce" three times, and he is free from her.
It is a disgusting practice. And if he divorces you, then you will truly be free! Embrace it, and find a man who truly loves you.
2007-03-16 00:26:22 · answer #7 · answered by C J 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Pray to ALLAH so He may help you
2007-03-16 00:52:08 · answer #8 · answered by Proud Muslim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋