how old should you be??

Question

i talk to this girl thats 12 years old and she wants to have sex with her bf.what should i tell her??

i neeb help here

Answer 1

You've barely begun understanding how your own body works, and now you want to play with someone else's too? As a rule in general, I'm against it. If you start sleeping with them now, that's all they're going to want. I didn't have sex until I was 21 personally and am darn glad I did. (I'm 24 now) I have some friends that are still virgins. It's really NOT as much of a big deal as everyone makes it out to be, and it's really not as good unless you love the person.

Parents always say that you should wait until you're married. Guess what? They're speaking from expirence. Scarry to think about, they were your age once too, not so much has changed since then when it comes down to choices like this.

You're friend is going to do what she wants to do in the end and she's going to need someone who won't judge her for the choice she made so stick by her no matter what, but try to talk her out of it if you can.

Answer 2

If I were you I would DEFINITELY recommend against it
Of course, it is her life and her decision.
If you feel that she is going to have sex, make sure she knows about safe sex and all that good stuff.
Maybe even scare her. I know that sounds mean, but she could so get pregnant. I was born on the pill, a friend of mine was born on the pill with a condom, and another friend was born with BOTH parents 'fixed'. She could get STD's if she doesn't use protection...she could easily be heart broken.
The list is practically endless...

Answer 3

wait wait wait wait and wait some more

Answer 4

tell her no. Its pretty obvious.