Should I call him back or should I stop talking to him?

Question

I have beeing seeing someone for 2 months, we talked everyday and saw each other ones or twise a week, then out of the blues he stoped calling for a week. He called me today and did'nt leve a massage. I feel like his just playing me and for that reason I dont know if to call him back and tell him it bother me or not call him anymore, I like him but I don't know what he feels for me, I have beeing hurt before and I am trying to avoid getting hurt again. What should I do?

Answer 1

Do women expect the guy to ONLY think of her 24/7? Can't the guy have anything else to do? We don't like to talk a lot anyway and to be constantly on the phone with a girl is hard, ya know?

Answer 2

Honestly i have been goin through the same since december. Its this guy i met at my job in december and we became good friends then he told me how he really felt and we became closer, we hung out a few times, went on a couple of dates and we fell in love with each other but i had my insecurities about jumping into a serious reltionship again so we just kept chilling and enjoying each others company and reminding each other of how we feel about one another, then like a month ago we stopped talking for like a week, i wanted to be like whatever but i really cared for him so letting go was not that easy, so i didnt call and neither did he for a entire week and i was thinking about him for that entire week, but then he called me the end of that week and we were right back where we started loving and caring for each other, he was waiting for me to call and i was waiting for him to call thats why it went on for a week, but you can call him and if he acts funny with you dont call back, because if he really cares he will call you eventually. the sooner he calls the more he cares.

Answer 3

best thing if you really want to know what his intentions are: but only if you are serious about finding out.

1. stop calling till he calls you (put it out of your mind till he calls)
even when you think about it blow it off

2. he will wonder why you are not at his beck and call anymore

3. if you do call him, act happy, don't mention not calling for a while (like it doesn't even bother you

4.HE WILL CALL (his mind will start bothering him)

you should watch that movie "TWO CAN PLAY THAT GAME" its funny and it spells out your situation to the tee.

do stuff you like in the meantime.

5. When he finally does call you, he will want to spend some time with you, when he mentions a day to hang out, let him know that you kind of already made plans. He might ask you about them, just offer another night. don't lie or anything or try to make him jealous. if he says anything, tell him that you hadn't heard from him in a while and you just made plans.

6.you make the offer, don't let him feel like he is totally in control. if he says what do you want to do. have a decision ready, don't say, "i don't know what do you want to do"

7. when you hang out, don't be clingy, just act like you are strictly friends, if he goes to hug you, or hold your hand, or kiss you or anything like that, kind of hold back.

he might ask whats up, tell him you just were not sure where he was going with it, that's all. let him know that you are there for someone who is serious about you.

hope this helps

Answer 4

I would have to say this is a no brainer , he doesn't seem worth the trouble. You are obviously not happy, I would play a little hard to get and see if he changes places with you.
It will make you or break you. If that doesn't work , It wasn't meant to be . I undersatnd how you feel but you can't let him know he is doing this to you. I wish you the best...
Tia

Answer 5

ok first thing you need to do is calm down....relax take a couple deep breaths and just chill.... this guy could possibly have had some kind of family problems maybe an extra curricular activity? and if he called you he obviously still wants to talk to you.....what you need to do is simmer down first call him...be relaxed...if your nervous he will think you dont trust him...just start talking and bring up the subject "why havent u called for a while?" he will probably answer...if he doesnt dont let him dodge the question....just hint at it 'so wut have you been up to latly?" trust me he has to answer one of those....and if he honestly seems un interested dump his *** no guy is worth that kind of trouble...there is always someone better out there...as for the not leaving a message...no guy likes to leave messages..its weird ok...especially knowing some1 else could hear it.....hope i helped you

Answer 6

have you asked him what he feels about you? you wont know what he thinks of you until you ask him... if you havent called him either he may be thinking the same thing.... there is nothing wrong with being open and honest when asking questions about how someone else feels about you, if they dont want to tell you or if they give you stupid answers, its time to move on to someone who will be honest with you

Answer 7

You know what? sorry to say, but it seems like he might have someone... Umm, but i can't be for sure... If you sense that you are being played, just leave him why stay and get hurt more rite? so just love yourself and leave this guy and find a guy that is real to you... so far this guy doens't seem so real to you.. you don't deserve him..

Answer 8

You need to ask him what's up sweetheart. Lay it out there and trust your gut. There is something that can be said for a woman's intuition.....don't be alll pissed off and confrontational with him just see what his deal is.....you'll know what to do :)

Answer 9

trust your womans intuition that he is just playing you and stop talking to him avoid the heart ache and totally useless pain that you know you would get with him, dont give him the player's satisfaction!

Answer 10

Call him, he tried to reach you, but problably chickened out. He probably thinks you are furious. Give him a chance.