my husband family is so annoying ther always in our buisness they are very envy that they try to tell him that he is the mother of the kids because because he take good care of them and tell me to relax and when i say something he gets offended.
2007-03-15 17:03:14 · 7 answers · asked by mrs somebody 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tel them you'll believe that crap about him being the mother of your kids on the day that you see a man giving birth to a baby. Tell the males in this family who agree with the inlaws you can play along though and will call them by a girl's name.
2007-03-15 19:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My rule of thumb with in laws is...my husband deals with issues involving his family, and I deal with the issues involving my family. I don't talk, explain, tell them why they're annoying me, and he does the same with mine. If there's something we do need to talk with a family member about, the one of us who is related to the family member by blood does the telling. It doesn't matter if it's telling his parents that they hurt us by constantly favoring his brother kids (he told them) or telling my family that our daughter won't be at a family get together (I told them).
Also, you might try wording your question a little clearer. I'm not 100% sure I gave you an answer you are looking for. Spell check is a wonderful tool. So is punctuation.
2007-03-15 17:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your question does not make any sense, therefore, if you speak like you write, I don't think they will get offended, they will just be confused! Seriously though, use some diplomacy and try to be respectful and polite. You don't have to like everything about your inlaws to get along OK.
2007-03-15 17:39:22 · answer #3 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i know how ya feel but i fixed mine first i started with hubby told him to cut the cords and that we are a family now and if he doesnt stand up for me when his family starts there crap ill do it myself at first he didnt believe me but oh now how he does lol u dont have to be crude just be honest and remember it goes both ways
2007-03-15 17:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by mtpt7273 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SWEETIE,........
First of all..NO MATTER WHAT YOU SAY OR DO,YOUR IN-LAWS WILL ALWAYS BE THERE!!!DEPENDING ON HOW YOU HANDLE IT,ESPECIALLY IF THEY KNOW ITS GETTING TO YOU...MAKE BEAUTIFUL COMMENTS RIGHT AFTER THE FIRST SMART A_ _!!! COMMENTS THEY MAKE...PLAY THEIR GAME AND DONT BACK DOWN....NOW ,ON THE OTHER HAND IF YOUR HUSBAND IS A "MOMMA'S BOY" THEN RUN...KEEP RUNNING AND DONT LOOK BACK....ESPECIALLY IF HE GETS OFFENDED WHEN YOU MAKE A COMMENT ABOUT HIS FAMILIES REMARKS!!! TRUST ME GIRL, BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, DON'T WANT IT KNOW MORE!!!!FREE TO BE ME......
2007-03-15 17:14:15 · answer #5 · answered by rcastrojt 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kindly rephrase your question.
2007-03-16 05:47:53 · answer #6 · answered by Pacifica 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh? This doesn't make sense.
2007-03-15 17:19:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋