my bf and his family?

Question

ok so ive been dating this guy for about 4 months and things are going pretty good. i love him with all my heart but ive been hurt a lot in the past and it takes a lot for me to trust someone. well as a family tradition his dad takes all of his sons to the strip club for their 18th birthday. and my bf has a pic from his that he had hanging on his wall until i took it down a month ago. and his brother turns 18 in august and my bf says he's going too. im not ok with this. i think strip clubs and anything like that are gross. should i be ok with him going?? also we share a computer with his family and a couple weeks ago there was porn sites on there and i asked my bf about them and he said it must of been his brothers. should i believe him?? (ive caught an ex-bf looking at porn in my apartment before so thats why im not sure what to do. i broke up with him for that.) any advice would be appreciated. thanks! =)

Answer 1

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Answer 2

Will guys will be guys, I think its okay as long as he's not planning to cheat on you or etc... Because every likes to look at pretty girls, but your job is to make sure he doesn't do anythign with any other women.. Other wise you'll just have to leave him.. You are a pretty girl, so don't waste your youth on a cheating guy... Good Luck.

Answer 3

I agree. kin could come first. That being suggested, see in case your kin gained't ideas in case you duck out from the area somewhat early to pop with assistance from and see your boyfriend, because it really is birthday. If that should be too awkward or puzzling, in simple terms furnish to have a good time your boyfriend's birthday on my own with him yet all over again. you are able to continuously meet his associates later. Your boyfriend won't be able to anticipate you to easily bail out on your kin, proper?