Do all guys, even guys in serious relationships, check out other girls? What if your significant other does it in front of you, but denies it? is it true when he says he never checks out other girls anymore, not at all? or is he just trying to not fight with you over it or he just doesn't want to admit it. just curious on what other people think about this.
2007-03-15 16:57:41 · 31 answers · asked by nicole r 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was just curious b/c my bf always denies it. I thought it was b/c he's afraid it'll hurt my feelings. how do i tell him it's ok, but just be honest w/ me?
2007-03-15 17:07:30 · update #1
Yes, we always look, if that's what you're asking. Isn't that why women spend so much time on hair, make up and those skimpy clothes You're spending so much time getting all dolled up, don't you expect guys to look? I'm sure that if women see some hot guy they look, don't you?
2007-03-15 17:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes of course...i am a huge push over when it come to girls and even i "sneek a peek" every now and again... most guys are ignorant...they date a girl and then get bored, i guess...its not like they are planning to get married(like some girls(no offense)) they are always on the market...even if they have some1 great right in front of them....they are blinded by the next best thing that passes through their eyeline....its just the way we were made we have hormones and we need a look sometimes....i cant explain why but it just happens....as for the denying it...i dont understand why guys do that...i mean what the hell if they are gunna ignore the amazing girl right beside them at least own up to it seriously guys...if you do the crime at least have the balls to admit it
2007-03-15 17:06:33 · answer #2 · answered by JMac 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the individual. Through past experiences, guys around my age do check out other girls (high school, even middle school). However, I do know some men who are very respectful to women and would never look at another woman wrongly, and you trust him too. Guys around my sister's age (college/grad school) also vary but I think people are generally more mature. My sister's old boyfriend was very respectful and he's the type of guy you would definitely trust. However, there are men 40-50 years old and still bad.
2007-03-15 17:04:39 · answer #3 · answered by skinny piggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah we do, no matter how hard a guy trys he will always check out other girls. It's part of the male mind and it really can't be stopped. Most guys in a relationship, especially in a serious one, will deny it because they don't want to hurt their gf or are embrassed they can't stop themselves.
2007-03-15 17:03:18 · answer #4 · answered by jeg589 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband swear he doesn't BUT I'm sure he does! I think he does...just looking..never thinks oh If I could fck her or whatever. It's a natural thing for guys to look. You have to remember tinky winky down there does 100% of the thinking. Although in 5 years I have never caught my husband checking a girl out in front of me. That is totally disrespectful.
2007-03-15 17:04:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most guys do look at other women. However there is a time and a place for it. When he is with you, you should be the only woman he knows exists. All of his attention should be on you. A glance is one thing, repeatedly doing it is wrong. It is disrespectful to you. Denying it is his way of avoiding the issue.
2007-03-15 17:06:56 · answer #6 · answered by broc_lyrain 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes, I would rather my spouce check out woman in front of me than behind my back. That way I know who he is coming home with. You have to make sure it is just a looking and not a wishing.
I actually started asking him 'hey did you check out that one over there'. He became more comfortable with it and out relationship opened up. He said he liked that I was confident in myself and trusted him.
2007-03-15 17:03:38 · answer #7 · answered by cvhuntaylor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i battled with this for a long time till i finally discussed it with my husband.
there is a difference between looking at a girl in lust and noticing that another girl besides you is good looking.
think about it this way, you probly notice a pretty girl before he does right? are you lusting after her too or do you just think , wow she is really pretty?
that is the same with him.
if the looks are longer than you would prefer, talk to him about it on an honest level without getting mad
we cannot walk around the world with blinders on.
hope this helps
2007-03-15 17:03:27 · answer #8 · answered by Stamping Machine 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
YES I KNOW i do i EVEN have a girl friend i love her a lot more than all the girls that i have check out its just natural
2007-03-15 17:04:12 · answer #9 · answered by Kevin b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been with a guy that never ever looked. i tried to catch him but he was just a sweetheart and said no girl looks good to him besides me. im telling u, i never saw him check out another girl. nd ive been with a guy that always always looks. theyre all different. if he looks theres no point in fighting about it. it means nothing.
2007-03-15 17:04:20 · answer #10 · answered by SweetDarlin' 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋