yea yea i've heard it she worred she loves u blah blah but lord she is to worried lik she asks me everything lik who was tht on the phone if i get my shoes on shes lik where u going EHHH and she is always coming in my room wanting to talk abou boys and friends lik eww cant talk to my mom lik tht so lik how pleaz HELP
2007-03-15 16:54:24 · 26 answers · asked by sexmehayley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I am a Mom of 3. 2 are teens. I do the same thing. I do have an open relationship with my daughter. Pretty much. It took awhile but she does talk to me about personal things. I may not like it or agree with it,but I am looking out for her best interest because I love her. Its hard for kids to realize we were young once to. I know times are different now that is more reason to talk to the one person who will be there for you thru anything. Good luck and remember be honest and open. She is your Mom and she loves you.
2007-03-15 17:26:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is SenoritaFartsALot here to answer the burning question at hand!
No need to waste any more precious time! This is what the ol' Senorita (that farts a lot) requests that you do :
You are going to start by making a plan of attack!!! This will include the following:
*You are going to have a guy friend of yours write you a fake note, where he talks about how hot he thinks your mom is. You will then accidentally let this note drop out of your purse as you walk out the door on your way to school. (This should peak some interest of her own- which will cause her to think and be quiet- which will then give you a much needed break from her pestering you!)
*The next thing you will do is- you will keep putting on your shoes CONSTANTLY. Make it look like you are about to leave every 5 minutes. And she'll eventually be so sick of it, she won't ask you where you are going anymore!
*Finally, get that woman subscriptions to the National Enquirer, The Star Magazine etc, so she becomes more consumed with pressing issues in the world such as the "Real Life Human Baby Born With Crab Legs". Send them to her anonymously and prop those feet of yours up and relax!
This should get you started for now. I guarentee you these ideas will work! Remember you MUST use reverse psychology if you want to beat her at her shennanigans!
One last thing before I go- remember NO ONE likes a nagging mother, or anyone for that matter. Don't let these other people judge you on this board. They don't know why you have that screen name, and frankly, it's none of their business either! For all I know, you could have borrowed someones account, I must give you the benefit of the doubt. Maybe if your mother gave you some slack, you would be more forthcoming with your personal life. But if she is going to be attached to you like a slug, I'd want to sprinkle some salt on her too!
This has been SenoritaFartsALot on assignment, signing off.
2007-03-15 16:57:14 · answer #2 · answered by Senorita Farts A Lot 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
she's just trying to get close to you and trying to stay in touch with you and maybe she's suspicious of you doing something you should be..are you? you don't understand at all that she was the one who took care of you and she's the one who's going to have to pay for it if you **** up while you're still at home. so you need to cut the little rich ***** attitude and blahblah yourself. you know? the easiest way and the ONLY way to get your mom to stop doing this to you , if she's a good mom, is to listen to her and tell her what she wants to know about your life. Why not? Why 'can't' you? Just try it. Just be honest with her or as honest as you can and then she'll back down, when she satisfied you're not undermining all the years of parenting that she has invested into you. She just wants to make sure you're not turning into some piece of crap. Also, if she's just doing it cuz she's like bored...you can also just tell her that it bothers you. Don't freak out. Talk like and adult and act like one and you'll get adult priviledges and treatments. Good luck!
2007-03-15 17:06:02 · answer #3 · answered by Ira S 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I hear you, my mom is the same way, and I'm 18 - a legal adult but she still treats me like I'm 10. I've been trying ever since I was that age to try to get her to stop being that way but she still is, if not more so now. She asks me every day if my boyfriend has called me, what we talk about, goes through my drawers where all my personal stuff is, you know, stuff she really has no business in. I put little notes in each drawer like "you know you're not supposed to be here" and stuff like that. If she's like that now, she never will stop being nosy, even when you're grown up and married. It's just her way of wanting to be involved in your life I guess.
2007-03-15 17:01:57 · answer #4 · answered by ♀♥♂☮Trippy Hippie☮♂♥♀ 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
HAHA dude my mom is just like that. One time this really cute boy walkedby and she was like "oohh he was checking you out" really loud. I never want to talk to her about anything. But when you go somewhere, tell her before she can ask. Tell her random pointless things that happened at school. Then she will have enough info and stop wondering. It helps, trust me. And give her loadsss of details for pointless things. So then you can save on details on more things that you dont want to talk to her about.
2007-03-15 17:01:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are under 18 she has a right to be nosy about what your doing and who you are with or talk to. Once you are out and paying your own bills then you can tell her to back off. We all had to go thru it and someday you will be in your own kids face and they will be annoyed with you.
Its called LOVE.
2007-03-15 18:09:02 · answer #6 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The funniest part of all of this is that if you talk to her about it she will pretend to be really offended and will make you feel like crap for telling her stuff like this, just like in that crappy show everybody loves Raymond.
But you have to do it. You have to talk to her and ask her to give you space, tell her you love her but you don't feel comfortable sharing stuff like your emotional life with her. You appreciate it but it's really deteriorating your relationship with her. The best way to talk about this is when she is in a SUPER good mood, take her out for coffee and tell her. Be super nice about it but go straight to the point, be super clear about what you want. Good luck!
2007-03-15 17:00:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
enjoy it now thank god your mom cares and wants to know whats going on in your life just think of all those kids out there whos parents don't give a **** what they are doing some day you will look back (when you have kids of your own) and laugh
2007-03-15 17:09:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
it depends on how old you are but basically thats what a parent is supposed to do her house her rules sorry I'm a Mom and It is my job to know what my teenagers are up to it's the only way I can help or protect or advise is to know whats going on and it's hard to step back as your children grow up cut her some slack she DOES love u
2007-03-15 17:02:25 · answer #9 · answered by sued 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Mothers go to boot camp to learn how to annoy their children.
It's because she loves you and she cares! I do think that your room should be your own private space, though. I don't cross that line unless I need to do the dusting or something. lol
2007-03-15 16:59:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋