Hey, umm my name is CC (thats not my real name they are my initials) and i bareley got a boy friend yesterday but i dont know what to do
first of all i told chris (my boyfriend) friend to tell him that i like him and to ask him for his e mail. then his friend came and told me that he didnthave an email so i told his friend that i wanted to go out with him and his friend told chris and chris said yes. and now we are boyfriend and girl friends. but i dont think we are officially bf because we barely talk because im shy. then the day after practically everybody at school knew that me and chris were dating but i didnt tell anyone and everyone knows. i want to talk to him..
i dont know what to tell him. please let it be that a shy 12 year old can say
NOTE: if you are going to write "oh you are to young to have a boyfriend" then dont post because im desperet
2007-03-15 16:43:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go guys somewhere where you can be off the sight of all of your soooo nice friends (huh, very diplomatic, to spread the message without you in the whole school o.O)....go to the movies, or somewhere to eat, just walk...take it easy, ask him questions to see what interests him, or if you know there is something you can both relate to (like school, i suppose)...you can always try that. don't be nervous about what you 'have to' or 'should' do because 'from now on you're boyfriend and girlfriend - amen'....just do whatever you feel like :). good luck
2007-03-15 16:49:20 · answer #1 · answered by justmemygosh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing you must do is to get rid of the shy factor. be realistic almost everybody has their own email address at a young age sure he has his own account. in anyway, better talk to him straight since you are pursuing to have him. for people surrounds you dont them mind they actually not part of your problem. be proud that people is talking about you and chris that just mean both of you are popular because people tend to take time just to talk about your stand with chris.
go and ask him if whats your stand on the situation better knew it before its too late.
if he says you guys were just friends so be it, let it be.
you can always find the right guy for you in the future.
take and think everything on the positive way! TALK TO HIM, DON'T BE SHY!
2007-03-15 23:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by leoNpari 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh i dont miss those days. thats how shcool is though. something happens one day and the next everybody knows about it. dont be shy. just go up to him and start a conversation. maybe hes a little shy or embarassed too. just be open with him. start by asking him how he is or how his day has been. ask him if it bothers him that the whole school knows or what he thinks about it. just communicate with him. things will be okay.
2007-03-15 23:50:16 · answer #3 · answered by sunshine24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to be the same way at that age (im 24 now). i was just very shy. i would say im dating someone, everyone would know, then we would avoud eachother and not do anything. its silly now that i look back at it, and it was just something i had to grow out of. at your age, and being shy, it IS going to be a little awkward. maybe just try to at least sit with him at lunch. or talk on the phone outside of school, if you are too shy to do it in front of everyone. just talk to him like a friend, while u are still getting to know eachother. u just have to be confident about it. hes not going to bite your head off. im sure he wants to get to know u too, and like u because he agreed to go out.
2007-03-15 23:51:10 · answer #4 · answered by SweetDarlin' 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i was kinda like that with my bf.and dont u hate when adults tell u that.im 13 and my parents tell me that all the time.i hate that.u need 2 talk cause if u dont ur relationship will fail.i dont think u want that.so good luck and if u ever wanna talk e-mail me.and i think its kool 2 find someone that thinks the same way i do!lol
2007-03-15 23:50:57 · answer #5 · answered by janae_gaines 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
only talk about what you feel comfortable saying. if you are that shy then start off by just saying hi every once in a while then advance up to more than just hi
2007-03-15 23:48:28 · answer #6 · answered by tye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, i don't know what to say
it'll be awkward for you, just like it's awkward for everyone else.
if you feel you know him well enough, tell him "wow. this is weird" jokingly. it'll let him know what you're feeling and thinking.
talk to friends who have already have boyfriends or HAVE had them.
they can help too
as stupid as it sounds: be yourself, haha
(oh and, you're not to young to have a boyfriend. :D )
2007-03-15 23:53:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you don`t know what to say or do what Else would you have problem with
2007-03-15 23:53:45 · answer #8 · answered by 16 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋