I love him and I know we are meant to be together. We don't sleep together as often as we use to, which totally sucks. Am I losing his interest? How can I make it hot again?
2007-03-15 16:40:30 · 19 answers · asked by SexySkirt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can try by doing things that you know are a fantasy for him. Give him a good build up working towards having sex. Also don't forget that talking to him about what is going on may resolve anything quickly and easily.
2007-03-15 16:46:22 · answer #1 · answered by broc_lyrain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having a relationship full of sex does not promise longevity.dont think because the sex is dying down your relationship is going down hill its just a normal stage. youre not losing his interest you guys r maturing. its the immature people that break up because "oh we dont have sex as much", STOP, if its your soul partner then u guys will be together no matter what. sex natutrally dies down after so many years because youre maturing and becoming soul partners, u "rise" above the desire of the flesh. although it will always be there. u need to realize that its ok to just "be".dont feel u need to make it hot, its just a natural process of maturing.
2007-03-15 23:50:29 · answer #2 · answered by Kleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you arent sleeping together as often as before, maybe it was too frequently..sometimes the sexual appetite is very satisfied and it slows down a little..i dont know your situation, but there are probably alot of things you can do to build the fire back up, but the first thing is to have a little communication with him about your needs and your wants.
2007-03-15 23:47:38 · answer #3 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Periodically do something nice for him or throw him against a wall & show him he still lights the fire... We like to feel appreciated just as much as women do & often times its harder to feel or see that. We dont want to feel neglected & I'm not just talking sexually though most guys would love to have more sex or hotter sex again. Once in a while suprise us with something that we would least expect from you.
2007-03-15 23:47:39 · answer #4 · answered by bpeter3196 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something unexpectantly. Surprise him with a romantic evening. Maybe you just need to make it through a rutt.
2007-03-15 23:45:18 · answer #5 · answered by emma s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try lingerie and toys. Maybe re-enact scenes from porn. If theres a reason you guys are having less sex, why dont you ask him? Or maybe you could just fulfill a fantasy you know he has.
2007-03-15 23:45:20 · answer #6 · answered by eunju 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would figure out why u arnt bein as active as u were first, try talkin to him. but to answer ur question, u could try the whole walk into the room in langerie and throw urself at him. i like it when my girl talks dirty and likes to act a lil dirty to
2007-03-15 23:46:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dress up in some skimpy clothes and surprise him!
I did it 4 my man and he could'nt keep his hands off me!
2007-03-15 23:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
show up naked and if he doesn't want you go somewhere else.
There is a lot of us guys in Perris, CA that wont look the other way.
2007-03-15 23:46:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spice up the night,,,,,sex is one thing a guy will never lose intrest in......so slap a thong on, candles, music, relax
......................problem solved!
2007-03-15 23:46:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋