I wonder if A man will wait for a woman even if she has kids and has been married before. Some guys will dump u right away and others won't even go there like won't even date you. Is this a waste of time or good catch?
2007-03-15 16:40:21 · 13 answers · asked by chiquita39 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Fact from fiction, truth from diction. Not blowing smoke up your a**, waiting would be easier than if she has kids. Not that all situations where there are kids is bad, but it can be a nightmarish one. When there are kids you have fathers, who don't want the man who replaced him parenting HIS kids. Then you have kids that will test you because they know mom is not going to let you lower the boom on them for messing up and such as you would your own kids. Or kids who will act out just to keep mom's attention because they feel they are losing some of their thunder to you. If she has kids it is a case by case study. Not all will make it, but not all will be rejected as soon as the rug rats are peeped out either.
If I truly felt she was "Her". I would wait, and do it gladly. For a woman who is everything you imagined and more, it would be worth it.
2007-03-23 01:33:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well will the woman wait if the guy said he doesn’t want to get married until he is sure that he can live with the woman? Say a long relationship and engagement like 4 or 5 years. I am not entirely sure it makes sense to not live with a person before you get married because people tend to be quite different when you live with them. Now I suppose you don’t have to have sex while living with that person but it is probably unlikely. That aside, if he can live with her for a while with out sex and without being married than sure, it is not like it would be any different when he is married. Little marriage joke there.
2007-03-23 14:32:02 · answer #2 · answered by hollingto 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends I waited a year without going after sex with a gf even when she grabbed & placed my hands on her rump because I really liked her she was much more experienced then I was & again I really liked her & that in itself scared me because she was to hot for a dork like me so when she put my hands there it scared me even more because I didnt want her to think i was just after sex especially since she was use to that type of guy & again I really liked her. Another woman pushed me against a public park bench during a walk on our first date & it was some of the best sex I had ever had & it was a busy park. Another pulled over 3 lanes of freeway during rush hour so we could do it & another insisted that we do it while parked at her church. It depends on the situation yes most guys want it easy but not that easy but then again most guys really dont care & if they do run its because their scared for some reason... Some guys dont like being submission makes them insecure. Again it all depends...
2007-03-15 16:53:13 · answer #3 · answered by bpeter3196 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For each individual it is different and we all place different emphasis on each part of a relationship. If waiting bothers you then ask yourself exactly why you were attracted. If waiting does not bother you then go for the relationship. Everyone has different reasons for saying 'yes' or saying 'no'. There is not a single 'right' answer for everyone. Use your heart, head and if all else fails, toss a coin.
2007-03-23 16:40:39 · answer #4 · answered by totallymine2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although sex is very important to having a healthy relationship, it is not everything. Remember sex is physical and you can get it anywhere. Love, respect, honesty and friendship are more important to make a relationship last. If you feel this for this lady, then you will wait.
2007-03-23 16:40:43 · answer #5 · answered by vivib 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man really truly Love the Lady. He should wait. If he is just Thinking below belt,... then he should find ho. and call it a day.
2007-03-22 19:36:23 · answer #6 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy is not intrested in because you will not agree to sex, that lets me know that is ALL HE WANTS. You stand strong, the right guy will come along.
2007-03-23 11:01:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the man sincerely loves her...he would remain celibate till the wedding night as well...
2007-03-23 14:51:07 · answer #8 · answered by juanes addicion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a slippery catch
2007-03-15 16:47:12 · answer #9 · answered by Dreamweaver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really luvs her he will wait.
a real man will always wait 4 his lady.
treat them nicely!!!.
b4 u lose them.
2007-03-23 16:41:29 · answer #10 · answered by emokid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋