I am so sorry for your loss. I would suggest grief counseling to help you get through this, a pill just won't do it. Make sure you reach out to family and friends during this time to get you through. Join a support group too. Asking God to help you get through this too would help a great deal. I will pray for you. Take care.
2007-03-15 16:46:40
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answered by MadforMAC 7
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I'm sorry to hear about your son.
I hope that you went to a Psychatrist instead of your regular Doctor, because a Psychatrist knows more about psych drugs than regular Doctors. Plus, they look at all the other medication you are on and they know how it interacts. That's what Psychiartist do - medication managment.
I tried commiting suicide around 2 years or so ago. I have been seeing a Psychiartist and a counselor ever since and I am heavily medicated. I take heavy doses of Lexapro in the morning and then I take heavy doses of Remeron at night too. I no longer have the suicide thoughs like I use to.
I don't think you can count on medication alone to take care of the problem. I think, it also takes counseling to help get over the root of the problem. This is actually the second time that I have sought professional help. The first time obviously did not do the trick, because here I am again. This time, I ended up self-admitting into a mental hospital, where I stayed for about a week. Then, when I got out I self-admitted into their day program, where I was in the program for around 5 months and it was like going to school for 6 hours a day 5 days a week.
The good thing is I learned a lot and I'm doing a lot better. I also discovered through all this that I have been suffering from depression for a very long time (most of my life). I just didn't know it, because I didn't know what it meant to be happy.
2007-03-15 17:19:45
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answered by JSalakar 5
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Hey. A friend of mine was on the same drug after experiencing a family death and recently got off of it. Be sure you talk to a Doctor about getting off it gradually. He went off cold turkey and had a very difficult time with it. ( mood changes, rage, etc) As for suggestions for other medications, I really don't know enough to suggest anything. But I really would talk to a Dr. about it as what works for one person may not work for another. Plus, if you're having thoughts of suicide the Dr. should know this as it will probably effect what she/he prescribes.
Above all else, please accept my condolences. I too lost someone recently (in a car accident) and while I know nothing I say can take away the pain, I want you to know that it eventually got less painful for me. Not easy or okay, but not so raw. Please take care of yourself. I'm sorry about your son.
2007-03-15 16:49:53
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answered by Kat 3
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As a nurse, this is when I become so angry over the nonsense about marijuana. When people are facing such horrors as the loss of a child, the pharmaceuticals available do not appropriately address the utter, cataclysmic shock and agony. And, they can be dangerous as you have learned. Marijuana is the drug of choice in acute emotional trauma. It is harmless, unlike the chemical and psychological dangers of most other drugs that you may try. It remains illegal in most states. But, if you have loved ones who use it, please consider trying it during the worst of this agony. Hospice RN
2007-03-15 16:50:48
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answered by Anonymous
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Sorry to hear about your son, losing someone very close to you can be very hard to deal with on your own.
I have heard that many antidepressants can have the side effect of thoughts of suicide. I was on prozac, and though it never had that effect on me, it was one of the possible side effects from the drug!
PLZ see your dr. for help with a new drug, or ongoing therapy to help you through this very hard time!!!
2007-03-15 16:47:20
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answered by ktterdfurguson 4
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ever asked yourself a question like WHY? for what reason you'd want to stop your lfe right this second? death- its when there is no physical life, however there is moral/ psychological
presence in this world. You will never ascape or run from yourself. Everything that you experience and think will always be present in your heart, just as your son is.
my regards...
2007-03-15 16:45:51
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answered by Iryna 2
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i can not think of what this ought to be like for you. same to seeing him interior the residing room ought to agonize for you. you would be able to desire to grieve, cry, scream and shout. have you ever acquire any kinfolk who can shield your son some days a week to offer you a destroy. Being a single mum is demanding on the better of situations, no longer to show with all this you need to manage. i think of the 1st situation you need to do is to get out of the abode. start up making arrangements to go right now away, for the reason which you would be consistently surrounded by employing memories and it will make it plenty extra durable so which you would be stable. perhaps you need to pass and stay with a chum till you progression? i comprehend its problematical hun, yet be stable and wipe out any techniques on your head approximately killing your self. i comprehend its impossible so which you will have self assurance suitable now which you will ever experience extra appropriate, however the huge rawness which you're feeling suitable now would be replaced over the years by employing a distinctive feeling. Anti-depressents ought to help for the meanwhile till you experience waiting to regulate back. Everyones distinctive, yet some human beings locate that counselling enables. Write letters to him (or communicate with him)- that's going to help circuitously. I did that as quickly as my nan died and it helped me to make some experience out of how i grow to be feeling and have been given it off my chest. Write down each and all the chuffed memories which you will think of of. he will continuously have a place on your heart, yet attempt to be stable. I promise you which you will get by way of this x
2016-10-01 00:09:02
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answered by ? 4
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Talk to your mental health provider. Welbutrin, Remeron, and Zoloft could be possibilities. There are tons of options, don't give up. Remember to always talk to someone if you're feeling like you might hurt yourself. Sorry for your loss :(
2007-03-15 16:41:23
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answered by Anonymous
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you really just need to talk with you doc because every thing doesnt work for everybody. I know that cymbalta, effexor , paxil maybe good, but also nuerontin makes ppl suicidal
2007-03-15 16:44:36
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answered by BartendingDiva 1
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Yes, see your doctor immediately. Psyciatrists know more about these drugs than regular doctors. I'm so sorry about your son.
2007-03-15 16:43:31
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answered by Neil L 6
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