This is for christians only... is it easy to forgive someone who insulted u??

Question

i'm a christian too.but for the past one and half year i'm struggling with a problem.My sister in law hurt me badly.she insulted me for no reason...it was i who had to apologise even though i was not at fault.at that time i thot that as a christian i had to initiate.but now she thinks that she did a nice thing to have insulted me as she thinks she was right...i have forgiven her but i'm unable to forget that incident. though i think i have forgiven her,whenever i remember her,my blood boils....which is almost every day.
i want to forgive her completely n move on but her words prick me...
i know that i'm blocking my own blessings by not forgiving her completely...i feel like cursing her ...then i feel guilty...plz help....dont ask me to talk to her again...i cant....i want answers which will spiritually liberate me from this bondage.

Answer 1

Yes. It is easy. Just do not dwell on what she did or said to much and you will eventually be able to forget about it.

Answer 2

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