Honestly? It seems like that all the good looking girls I meet just want to get drunk and party on the weekends. Sure I may have liked those girls when I was 18, but now that I'm 22 and about to finish school I want a smart, attractive girl thats a little more quiter. Is there even any good looking ones out there that exist!? and this may sound stupid, but how do you spot them? lol
2007-03-15 16:18:31 · 11 answers · asked by Lebanese_Mafia 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know - Im a girl and I cant even find friends who are level headed. For that matter its hard to find guys who arent like that either - its just such a stupid thing, that everyone between 17-30 is like into getting drunk all the time and party after party.
2007-03-15 16:22:14 · answer #1 · answered by radiancia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all. I partied every weekend and all that crap in high school and the summer after I graduated but after that I grew up. Now I understand the importance of wise decisions and I for one certainly do not want to end up an alcoholic/druggie partying every weekend with children to take care of. I am also 22 and am at the age that I am putting family and career first before anything else for one day I want a family and I want to be an excellent mother and wife. But I am very taken for the last 4 years, in fact yesterday was our 4 year anniversary and we have been living together for almost 6 months. We are both very family and career oriented and I see an amazing future with him. So, not all girls are the party goers but it seems nowadays most are. Good luck.
2007-03-15 16:26:18 · answer #2 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love to go out and party with my friends, but drinking and drugs are never a factor. I'm 19, and if you want to find the good girls in the club, find the ones who are drunk and sloppy - then look a few feet behind them - you'll find the sober ones pointing and laughing, shaking their heads in shame, or having a good time together. We always try to stay a little bit further from them, so everyone can differentiate. Hope this helps!
2007-03-15 16:22:46 · answer #3 · answered by Kimi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not at a club or at a bar that is for sure! Go find someone from your church or through a friend. At your age most women are into partying because of the party scene. It just depends on the girl and what she values. Go to the library on campus and scope out some girls. If they are there...they are into school. Or go out with an older woman who is done partying.
2007-03-15 17:37:36 · answer #4 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why good looking girls can't drink and party all the time. Many of my friends and I drink and party every weekend only because we just got out of serious relationships. Good guys hang out at bars and clubs too...and if things work out, then yay. If not, we just party with the girls. As long as those good looking girls have decent careers during the day, there's nothing wrong with drinking and partying on the weekend. (speaking from experience).
2007-03-15 16:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in college and-not to brag but-I've always been a little more mature than my contemporaries and it's just difficult for me to find good guys who aren't just interested in shallow temporary highs.
People who are not so deeply sunken in their self-imposed depravity-they're out there (believe it or not)! Don't settle for a stupid girl who has nothing to offer but, well, ya know...
You seem mature enough to seek a relationship based on something more lasting than just looks.
Look for good girls in your upper-level classes or church or maybe somewhere you might volunteer-those are the ones worth anything.
Good luck!
2007-03-15 16:27:48 · answer #6 · answered by abby j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, women in our age group are new to drinking in public. They aren't mature enough to slow it down yet. There are women out there who don't drink or drink very little that are in our age group, but it's been my experience that they are hard to find. I hope you're not meeting them in a bar because that's sort of a DUH moment in my opinion. Anyway, just wait. The girl you're looking for will come along. Also, it's not just the girls you find good looking.
2007-03-15 16:28:00 · answer #7 · answered by toxicity_inour_city 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, they are out there. Don't worry, the right girl will come when you least expect it.
2007-03-15 16:22:17 · answer #8 · answered by Kirstin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all....i didnt used to. u settle down if u can find a good guy that wants u to
2007-03-15 16:22:23 · answer #9 · answered by jenivive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all do, maybe you're looking in the wrong places.
2007-03-15 16:22:17 · answer #10 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋