I know that the stress that I'm having will affect my baby. Some times I don't know how to not be stress. I live with my inlaws and this week we had a very big argument. My mother-in-law is so heprucate. with my 5 year old. only when people are around she acts like she loves him but, other then that she don't even care for him. What I don't get is why she acts like that I know that every grandma has favorit grandkids thats ok. But don't be a 2 face when people are aroun her. please try to under stand me. I know some one will ask why don't I get out. My husban don't want to. I want to. Please give me a good why not to hurt my baby anymore. while I'm here.
2007-03-15 15:54:03 · 6 answers · asked by Marisela C 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
stress happens. I had alot of stress with both my pregnancies and ended up single both times and with the last pregnancy, I ended up losing my family too... I realized taht toxic people were messing with my life and my kids too. The first pregnancy was high risk to begin with and I lost my man when 2 months preg. and knew that I would have no child support or maternity leave. She was fine.. perfect baby. My second pregnancy, I realized taht my family was wrecking my life and I had to basically kick my family out of my life... plus I had to tell my one night stand that the condom didnt' work... he was wanting me to give baby up. My family is putting guilt on me because I am telling them to show respect or leave me alone and they were using my daughter against me. I had just moved to a new town, was single, on my own and was off of work due to pregnancy symtoms that made me unsafe at my job. Stress with both pregnancies... Have one perfect 7 year old and preg 26 1/2 weeks with my son... and finally feeling less stress (because my family is gone and so is the guy that told me to get rid of it).. kicked them all out of my life and I am feeling peace inbetween hormone mood swings... lol. The stress is not ideal for your baby.. but I would think it is damaging to your other children who are actually obersving it and how you let people treat you./
2007-03-15 16:02:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not about to juge you, but don't worry about your mother in law feeling toward your son it is her feelings as well as her lost for not be honest or in love with your little boys
just love your child and try to make for any hurt he might feel
As for you wanting to move & your husband won't
you need to ask yourself why if is for financial reason than stay if not talk to a friend ar other family member if you &the kids can stay with them while you sorted yourself out
but before you move out Sit your husband down and talk to him
tell him how you need peace and if his parent are the one that will make him happy you understand but because you are pregnant you are not able to handle the stress and it is unhealthy for the baby you will move away
Good luck
2007-03-15 23:06:25 · answer #2 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all be strong tell your husband to be a man and take care of u and his kids ,and get a house. The best way to stop hurting your baby is leave him high and dry and think about you and your kids. Girl I feel for you but you got grow a backbone. I know its not easy, but what comes first him or the well begin of your unborn seed.
2007-03-15 23:05:46 · answer #3 · answered by Rayne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a calm conversation about the problem with her and if she don't understand point it out to her the next time she does that, or don't allow her to show off your child. Talk to your husband about it and see if he can talk to her.Maybe yall should decide whether or not yall should really move. In the mean time relax and stay calm and think about your baby's health.
2007-03-15 23:08:26 · answer #4 · answered by Sexy Lady 22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pay your mother in laws rent and buy the food
2007-03-15 22:58:16 · answer #5 · answered by butanebird91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
goto doctor
2007-03-15 23:38:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋