We're together during school, we eat together everyday, we hang out constantly, and we even work together. I've completely fallen for the girl but I have no idea what to do.
2007-03-15 15:52:28 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
start by putting in the topic into ur convos
ie- thoughts on dating etc.
then ask her questions..
ie- how would u like a guy to ask u out
- what would u do if this girl had their best friend ask them out etc
then shoot
- use her answers and re-act them : )
2007-03-15 15:56:55 · answer #1 · answered by Alilshy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you do something crazy you run the risk of losing the friendship, if you do nothing you run the risk of waiting to long. If shes your best friend she will understand. talk to her about it. Just be aware that she may not like you the same way. Dont lose a best friend over it, its not worth it. Could you move on if she isnt interested? if you think her not having the same feelings could end the friendship then your really in a tough spot and will have to go with your gut instinct.
2007-03-23 06:18:16 · answer #2 · answered by David Parker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take some time away from her for a little bit not like a month or anything. take time to think about something else and if after a while you still cant get her out of your head or you want her even more then just tell her how you feel. but dont go in expecting her to be in love with you or anything because for all you know she could just think of you as like a brother. sad facts but its possible. also you have to be aware of the damage that this may have on your friendship. so yea just take some time to think things thru w/o the constant smel of her hair or that amazing smile or w/e it may be.
good luck bro
2007-03-23 15:13:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself which is more important to you your friendship that will last a life time and you know that making a move will not rein it. If you know this for a fact then not telling her how u feel will just eat you alive. Figure out a way to approach her with these feelings and try not to be nervous. Be prepeared for any answer cause it is going to hit her just like it has hit u. Give her sometime to absorb her mixed feelings so that she can give u a straight answer.
2007-03-23 22:02:07 · answer #4 · answered by Rena G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok....Here is where you need to decide. Are you friends...or more? You may feel like you love her, but if you dont you could hurt you guys friendship. Sit her down and ask her how she feels about you. Talk it over and tell her what you said to all of us in cyberspace. You love her, madly. Tell her how you feel about her. It should work itself out. And if she does not feel the same, dont let it affect your friendship. Keep your head up.
2007-03-23 23:01:41 · answer #5 · answered by Lea S. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a few years ago, my best friend had started to fall for me, but i was still caught up on my ex. so i didn't notice, my ex and me got back together a few months later, and my best friend and I fought for 5 months. finally my ex. left me again, and when me and my best friend talked after so long, nothing was ever the same, I will regret it for my whole like, cuz she was such a great person. Now we barely talk and i miss her so much. so take the risk, at least then you'll know. and knowing is better then wondering what if.
2007-03-23 06:50:16 · answer #6 · answered by artic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that she feels the same way. Its usually the girl that falls for the guy so im guessing that she likes u 2. Just go 4 it and ask her out.
2007-03-23 22:57:38 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey just ask her out on a date, and try to make as fun as possible. After about a week of giving her hints and stuff that you like her, tell her how you really feel. Take her somewhere and sit with her and tell her you really like her. What can you loose, if you go in with nothing and come out with nothing youve lost nothing. But if you come in with nothing and come out with something, oh ya...take a chance and a breath and ask her out.
2007-03-23 17:40:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww thats so cute! you def need to tell her how you feel. dont come off way to strong or it might scare her a little bit. just explain to her that you think you may have more feelings for her then just being friends and what she thinks about it. if she asks what you mean just tell her how much fun you have with her and tell her all her amazing qualities.
good luck! keep us informed with how it goes!
2007-03-15 22:56:16 · answer #9 · answered by liz1214 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out for a friendly get together. If your in high school..ask her to the prom...
2007-03-23 19:14:20 · answer #10 · answered by Pepper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋