im pregnante with a three month baby and scared please some advice would be good?

Question

i have a three month old baby and im getting married on may 5 and i just found out that im pregnante agean and im really scared. could any one give me some good advice or atlease make me feel better?

thnks everyone for the asvice it really helps. my fiance keeps telling e to wuit worring but i just can't help it. and think with birth control i've tried everything and im always on my period for like three months but im still trying something to see what goes with my body. so thanks everyone i really appreciate the advice ya'll gave me it made me feel a lot better

Answer 1

Congragulations, don't feel bad everything will be just fine. Just take it one day at a time. In the mean time be happy that you can bring another wonderful life into the world.

Answer 2

You will have two babies very close to each other. The first few years will be difficult but keep in mind you are not the first person this has happend to. You can and will get through it and when it is all done you will look back and want to go back to when your babies really were babies. Whenever things get too hard step back, take a deep breath, and tell yourself "This too shall pass". If you need to take a bath, lock the door and turn up the music. (Just make sure your babies don't NEED anything, no one has died from crying). If you need more help look for a new mom support group in your area, they have those everywhere. I live in a very small town and there are about 10. Good luck and Congrats on the new baby, wedding and pregnancy! It is a lot but you can do it!!!

Answer 3

My sister and I were born less than 11 months apart. My mother was told that she was pregnant at her six week check up. I really don't see how she did it, I have a 2 year old and a 3 month old of my own, but my sister and I loved it. We always were and still are the best of friends and playmates. The first couple of months will be hard, they always are, but when they get to be a little older, things will be easier because of the close proximity of their ages. We shared toys, clothes, and everything else until we moved away. In fact, she still has quite a few of my clothes in her closet. I know that you're scared but you will get through it. Just look forward to having another baby. And look into IUDs for afterward. Its great bc that you don't have to worry about for 5 years. How nifty cool is that?

Answer 4

i don't know if anyone here can make you feel better seeing as we don't know you. i dont care how many kids you have, it is always scary to have another. I've seen alot of people have kids close together, and they seem more scared than others, for many reasons, mostly the added expense of two kids needing different sizes of dipers, more dipers needing to be bought, two different kinds of formula needing to be bought if formula fed, how to blance time with each young child, etc. the only thing i can really say is that out of all the people i know who have had kids close together (and it's alot) what always seems to work is getting both kids on one schedule. no matter how scared you are, keep reminding yourself that this is a blessing, no matter how difficult it may seem, Sorry if i wasn't much help, but believe in yourself, i think that is one thing everyone forgets to do especially when pregnant, we always fear if you will be a good mother or if your childnre will get along nd in your case, how do you balance two small children? If it makes any difference, i believe you will be fine. you seem to be a good mother, if you weren't you wouldnt be scared and concerned right now.

Answer 5

I teach preschool so I see lots of families with young children. I always have siblings that are back to back. It is so easy to get pregnant right when you have the first.

I have one poor mother who looked like she was just exhausted every day....She was 45 years old and she had two adorable little boys. She said that she always wanted a family but could never find the right man to marry. Years passed and she dated but nothing serious and then she met this wonderful man who was also her age. They decided to not mess up a good thing and not get married or have children. They lived separately still and just vacationed and enjoyed life. She fell ill and then realized that at 40 years old she was pregnant. She said she freaked out but her bf was very great about it and they got married. She had this baby, new marriage, and was trying hard to make this work. She went back to work 6 weeks later and felt so exhausted and just not herself. Turns out she was already pregnant!

When things get overwhelming just think about this poor woman. If she can do it at 45 you can too.

Congrats on the new babies and on your wedding! SD

Answer 6

i'm no longer yet another teen mum yet i presumed i may be able to help and that i'm 17 too. i might recommend you the two keep the toddler or placed it up for adoption (open or closed) using fact all and sundry i realize it extremely is had an abortion nonetheless cries approximately it. i do no longer likely understand the form you need to tell your mum and dad different than to easily tell them whilst their in a stable temper and sitting down. you will possibly be able to desire to objective calling a million-800-395-help to communicate to experienced professionals that have adventure assisting pregnant youngsters. they might have a extra clever thank you to tell your mum and dad. additionally, you will possibly be able to desire to tell the daddy immediatley and it could be extra convenient to tell him first. you will might desire to get a Gynecologist in case you do no longer already have one and start up taking prenatal supplementations. you ought to additionally bypass to the e book keep and purchase various books approximately being pregnant, childbirth, and parenting mutually with what to assume once you're anticipating. stable success, i'm hoping each and every thing seems. in case you ought to any extent further questions only ask.

Answer 7

It might be hard at first (understandably of course). But, I think the two kids will grow up closer than ever and be thick as thieves since they will be so close to the same age. Thats how me and my sister were growing up. Everyone thought we were twins we did everything together.

Answer 8

don't worry, i have 2 of my own and i had mine when my first was only 6 months. i know how you feel, u are scared but don't be, believe me u would be so proud of Ur self when u have the little bundle of joy. it would all get better, everything is going to be alright. just believe in yourself. and have faith. think of it like this you wont have to buy to much thing, the new baby can reuse them lol....

Answer 9

you'll be fine
but really find a good birth control