okay..so my friend (who is a guy) (also my ex) anyways.. whenever he's around a girl or goes out with a girl i get extremely jealous.. but when i have the chance to be in a relationship with him.. or am in a relationship with him.. i dont like him like at all.... im so confuessed. help?
2007-03-15 15:49:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for those of you who wanted more detail....i have dated other guys.. and i still feel jealousy... i have no idea why... i even have a date to sadies right now and hes going with someone else (who happens to be my good friend) and im worried when they're slow dancing i'll lose controll and break down or something. i really like my date too... it sucks im so confuesed.
2007-03-15 16:58:09 · update #1
happens all the time. . . just a fact of life. can't really explain it. you don't want him to be with anyone Else.. because well, it's someone Else.. YOU want to be the world to someone.. but you don't actually love him.. you just don't want to lose that feeling of someone liking you. you just need to move on and find someone else you actually Like.. and let your ex move on too. it's not fair to either of you two. of course you are going to get jealous if you see someone you once liked/loved happy with another girl. but yet when you are with him YOU aren't Happy.. and that is most important.
2007-03-15 15:55:43 · answer #1 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I really need more details to be extremely helpful but I will do what i can. First off the fact the you don't like being in a relationship with him may simply be opposites attract. You may have feelings for him on a deeper lever and the superficial things in the relationship are not connecting in the same way or vice verse. This is if you are attracted to him which I do not know from the information you have provided. Another possibility is that you do not like him and this is such a strong feeling of dislike that you hate seeing him happy or more happy than you. I need more info from you to properly assess the situation so if you would like, e-mail me with more details and I will try to be more help full.
2007-03-15 23:02:55 · answer #2 · answered by ace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, this could pose a major problem for you, that's for sure. Maybe you aren't jealous of him so much as jealous of the fact that he is in a relationship and you're not. Maybe you should try dating other guys and see what happens. You never know, maybe you could find another guy that you really really like. It's worth a shot, right? And if you really like this guy, maybe you could even tell him how you feel, and if not, maybe get to know him a little better. That could help your relationship if you decide that you want one with him. :D
2007-03-15 23:07:26 · answer #3 · answered by hola_qtee_pie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first off if you dont like hem win you date mabey you shold not date hem at all and the jealous part i dont know what to tell you i guess you can tell hem how you feel
2007-03-15 22:57:26 · answer #4 · answered by dober1985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the gum out before you start walking.
2007-03-15 22:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing to worry about darling...you're just a typical woman. You want your cake and want to be able to eat it too.
2007-03-15 22:55:19 · answer #6 · answered by dwayman1978 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
poor u...
maybe u don't know what u want yet
just wait and mr. right will come along ^^
2007-03-15 22:55:10 · answer #7 · answered by Alilshy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋