Theres this girl, and she is absoultly increidible.She is smart, beautiful, sweet, and just a overall great person. She has changed me as a person. She has shown me the path of religion that I love, she has made me do better in school by saying if she can do it why cant I. She has open me up and helped me see every creature for thier own beauty. She is my reason for getting up in the morning, and I look forward to being with her when ever I can. We are freinds, and I have already asked her out,several time, even once with a group of people. She said no, but because she wants to wait till shes older. I have these increidible feelings that I have never felt for anyone, and I want to tell her. What should I do? Need help!
When I say a I asked her out with a group of people, I mean I asked her out with a group of freinds. She said no, because she's smart and knew I just wanted a date. I don't want to lose her, I will do ANYTHING for her.
2007-03-15 15:46:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How do I tell her?
2007-03-15 17:22:19 · update #1
How do I tell her? she doesn't feel the same about me, so I don't want to her in place where she feels presured.
2007-03-15 17:23:26 · update #2
I am going to tell her. THank you everyone.
2007-03-15 19:34:28 · update #3
Well show her!! Give her flowers, give her necklaces. Stop her and go like, "[girl'sname] look I won't stop and I'll do anything for you, You are my everything." and hold those boxes of chocolates!! Help her with her stuff, show her you can be a good man, and i'm sure you'll have a bright future!
2007-03-15 15:50:48 · answer #1 · answered by Dreamer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since she's into her school work I feel that you should let her do her thing. Me saying that don't mean you should give up. If you truly care for her you will do things she likes to do too and that's school work. Stay by her side until she feels that she is ready to be in a relationship. Remember education comes first and everything else come second so keep her as a good friend for now. When she sees all the things you are doing or have done she'll realize what type of boy you are and she want to be with you.
2007-03-23 19:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by Baby S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi john,
u have said so many things about the girl. ur really in love with her. u made a mistake while calling her with a group of people. next time call her alone. give a note stating ur feelings towards her. also seek her opinion about u. enjoy the life!
2007-03-15 22:54:18 · answer #3 · answered by amarnath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with her and wait until she's ready. Try not to be too mushy with her, because some girls are turned off by it. Maybe when she's ready she'll have the same feelings for you? Good luck!
2007-03-15 22:54:21 · answer #4 · answered by poetry_dreamer2001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi john.
oh my dear, you seriously in love with her. i wish you a good luck!
These is what you should do to win her heart
1. show her how much you care about her
2. show her how important she really means to you
3. be supportive
4. don't scare her by giving her many expensive presents
5. don't push her to accept you.
6. give her a time
7. try to avoiding her for 1 to 2 days and see if she try to find you. if yes, it's mean she really cares about you.
8. don't try so hard to express your feeling, do it slowly
9. try to ask other girl out infront of her and look how she act
10 be as you are
11. don't you ever look desperate
p.s one rose in her locker might help you.
2007-03-15 23:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by Tia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you slow down a little.
Wait 'till next year. Maybe she'll be ready to be your girlfriend in the 3rd grade.
Hey, there's always 4th grade....5th?
2007-03-23 12:15:39 · answer #6 · answered by idontwantasalad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, i always wanted to be that kind of girl so i can have every guy adore me like you do her...haha...
the best you can do is achieve for the best all the time...just focus more on yourself and she'll see it then who knows...you guys have a wonderful friendship...
2007-03-15 22:52:29 · answer #7 · answered by vincent m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish the guy I like right now was like you!
2007-03-15 22:50:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋