The girl i wish and want to be really talking to and dating came out of a relationship late last year like in september or october and she is not ready to start dating again becuase she is not over this guy 100%. i have been talking to her pretty much everyday since like early december. i have asked her out numerous amounts of times and personally think i should give up. the second she is ready to start dating againt i want to be the guy she thinks of first. she knows im interested and i think i should back off or should i stay strong and keep doing what ive been doing? any advice would be greatly appreciated!
2007-03-15 15:42:53 · 13 answers · asked by masterplaya271 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what about whens shes ready to date and i am in the friend zone? is there anyway to get out of the friend zone?
2007-03-15 15:56:25 · update #1
Best advice here? Just be patient. Patience is a guy's worst nightmare at first...but just wait and everything will work out fine :) If she really likes you, then you will still be beating inside her heart. But give her some time and space, it may take some time for her to get over a guy. While you are waiting, plan ahead! Think about a future with her or...another girl. Are YOU ready for her? Think about all the things you could do for her...heh...plan a future surprise ;) If you feel like you've waited long enough though, then just get over her and move on quickly! There is a girl out there for you, just be patient! Good luck and hope that helps!
2007-03-23 09:37:22 · answer #1 · answered by Joshua R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have touched this girl in anyway, when she gets to the point to where she would like to date then you would be first in line. You have to understand where she is coming from in this situation. It is not good for you to put pressure on her. When she is ready to date then she will do so. Believe me when I say that you do not want a woman that still has issues dealing with a past relationship. That does not give you a fair chance nor the woman. Just hang in there and be patient and if it is meant to be then it will come when the time is right
2007-03-23 13:42:43 · answer #2 · answered by queentasha26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha, the friend zone. Everyone I've ever dated, i've been friends with first. It makes a relationship stronger. Plus if you stick around and she knows she can trust you as a friend, it will make her like you even more, and there will be no awkward "getting to know you" phase. That is, if she's interested and not just using her last relationship as an excuse so she doesn't hurt you. I don't know. I think you should stick around and see what happens.
2007-03-23 12:09:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay in touch,move a sofa,help paint a room,or offer your pick up truck to help out.
Stay in touch.
Do not become "Great Friends"
Once you are in the friend catagory you are lost for sure.
You have already done a good deal of damage,pull back a little and hope for the best.
You should have asked for advise sooner.
2007-03-15 15:52:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should back off, if you dont your just pressuring her to getting her to like you. It's okay if you could be best friends. This probably isn't the best answer to give you, and it'll probably make you mad, but as long as you are friends maybe in the near future she'll get into dating and one day date you and have a happy life forever... :)
2007-03-15 15:46:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to be her friend and give her time and space to get over the failed relationship. Good luck. I you feel comfortable you could ask her to go to a park or public place as friend.
2007-03-23 12:08:59 · answer #6 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Most women can get over a guy by finding another guy they see themselves caring about. If you haven't done that you are just filling the role of her ex-boyfriend and she has already decided it isn't going to happen.
2007-03-23 15:49:22 · answer #7 · answered by Serena L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop asking her to get romantic and just be her friend for now. but don't just give up on it if you really like her. if you think she is worth the wait then be a friend and show her some fun but tell her you just want to be friends for now. no pressures no expectations.
2007-03-15 15:49:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off ; but continue to be her friend. If she wants to be more than friends; allow her to make the first move.
2007-03-23 15:42:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be her friend...be there for her...but don't be fake...be yourself and let her know that you are just doing what you have been brought up to do..and that is treat women with class...
the more she sees this...and the more that you show that wanting a girlfriend relationship is 2ndary to JUST being her friend...will help convince her that you are legitimate and are there because you want to be...not just because you want her as a gf..
2007-03-23 14:49:28 · answer #10 · answered by juanes addicion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋