i have to go to a wedding and i hate the bride. what do i wear?

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she has is extremely rude. sent all invitation info to my and my boyfriend's home stating "my boyfriend and guest" ...and we've known her for years. constantly pretends to be nice but always manages to get her digs in. my bf is close with her fiance. i want to wear something sexy and attention grabbing. any suggestions?

did i forget to mention my bf will be walking down the asile with his ex gf, also her bridesmaid and it will be a highschool reunion.

i'm not petty but i've been dealing with her bs for as long as my bf and i've been together. i always take the high road with her. she has been to my house before, i'm gracious friendly etc. don't you think it is very disrespectful to send coorespondance to my home inviting my "bf and guest"? i always go classy but i am tried want to be a bit sexier...thoughts

i'd only wear jcrew to work...it's too boring and safe to wear for any dressy event. that is more the bride's style...boring and safe. i want rich looking and sexy. i live in nyc and have all brands shops...any suggestions for unique and beautiful dresses?

i know she hopes i let him go alone. i won't give her the satisfaction. i refuse i stay home and sulk over this. i'm going, i'll hold my head up high and look gorgeous...just at a loss over the dress. i have lots of pretty dresses...want to look hot!

thanks, i'll check out the VS site!

you all know i can't wear white....i was thinking black or a bright color or print...like a pucci-esque. kinda partial to the black.

weddrev - don't respond if you're not on my team!! i'd never wear those terrible dresses in the links you sent...ugh! what i wear does haev bearing on if i like the bride. i don't care if the day is about her. i'm going to support my bf not rejoice for the bride.

thanks jlametz!! you're awesome..those are great links. just to clarify to everyone. my bf and i are engaged...so i should have written fiance and just to state again ....we own a home together. the bride clearly is not welcoming me otherwise she would have written both our names on the invitation. see why i'm so annoyed? i would never dress slutty...i just wnat to wear something special, different...and yeah maybe a little sexy. idon't think i being immature. did i mention she just sent us an offensive " congratulations on your engagement card"

she acts very immature. she is the girl who made eveyone sign her yearbook in hs and always brings a camera with her. hello...we're almost 30. basically she is a big dork..plain jane type. (i'm not) so keep the great website links and suggestion coming.

Answer 1

I can sympathize with you completely on your feelings about this! My husbands friends didn't all welcome me with open arms either! We are in a small town with a set mentality, and I wasn't part of it, int heir eyes! Anyway, we recieved several invitations when we were engaged to Mr Justin **** and guest! One of his friends sent one like this and it was a month before our wedding, I'm certain they could have listed my name at least ont he inside envelope! Hello I'm not a guest, I'm his fiance! So as I said, I understand! More power to you for wanting to show up AND make a statement!
I would go with a striking outfit, not necesarily slutty, just an attention getter for the way it looks on you! As some others have said, you don't want to be remembered as the one who looked like a slut! And trust me there are plenty of awesome dresses that will make you stand out without being over the top on the slutty list!

I love White House Black Market-they have awesome dresses that are stiking and sexy, but still have a certain class to them!
http://www.whitehouseblackmarket.com/store/shelf.asp?ppp=34&navCatID=3&navItemID=1

Or try this one from VS, it's awesome and still has a certain class to it! But it will catch anyone's eye!
http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application/prodDisplay/?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=ZL-203690&page=1&cgname=OSCLODRSBLK&rfnbr=3198

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http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application/prodDisplay/?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=ZL-209250&page=1&cgname=OSCLODRSBLK&rfnbr=3198

Or make more of a statement by wearing a red dress! It's an attention getter and sexy!
http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application/prodDisplay/?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=ZL-207310&page=1&cgname=OSCLODRSBLK&rfnbr=3198

Good luck and hope you steal every bit of the sttention in your sexy little number! Go get em girl! Oh and remember, play nice and you'll keep em wondring whats up!

Answer 2

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Answer 3

From what I can tell, you're being very immature about this. Obviously she's trying to be polite. If she wasn't she wouldn't have invited you in the first place. She's trying so why shouldn't you? If you don't like her don't go. No one is making you. But don't show up just to grab attention. You won't be supporting you're BF, you'll be making him look like a fool who's dating a skank. In the end, it will hurt you AND your relationship more than anything. Who wants to date a girl so bitter that she'd wear something sexy just for the sake of stealing the bride's spotlight. You'll have your day.

To put a long story short, STOP BEING SUCH A CHILD. It's not becoming. Wear what normal adults typically wear to weddings.

Also, I like Weddrev's dress choice. They look very classy but at the same time simple and comfortable.

Answer 4

Not liking someone has no bearing on what to wear to a wedding.
And this is also not the time to be sexy. It will only draw attention to you as a fool, nothing more. And besides, the wedding is not about YOU.
Your age, the formality of the wedding & whether it's indoors or out, should dictate what you wear. May I suggest you go for something elegant?

For a church wedding; also wear a coverup with the more bare ones while in the sanctuary.
http://www.barijay.com/style.php?PHPSESSID=c1d160d27e62ddd337ebbafaa59abd5c&coll=barijay&showid=110
http://www.barijay.com/style.php?PHPSESSID=c1d160d27e62ddd337ebbafaa59abd5c&coll=barijay&showid=68
http://www.cbslimited.com/bridesmaid-dresses/detail_mob_jovani-150228400
http://www.cbslimited.com/bridesmaid-dresses/detail_mob_jovani-213245285

Answer 5

Be the bigger person. Dress elegantly and decent. It is her day and she should be noticed. You don't want to show up and make a scene. Think about it. She'll be surrounded by family and well wishers; you'll be outnumbered and remembered as the skank that came in the slutty dress, if you are remembered at all.
Always go with being classy. You've got a man, she's got a man. Don't sweat the small stuff.
Skip the receiving line.

Answer 6

Would you want her coming to your wedding and grabbing all the attention? If you don't like her, don't go. Don't disrespect someone on what is supposed to be the happiest day of her life. You just sound petty.

PS...jcrew has great, appropriate dresses.
http://www.jcrew.com/catalog/category.jhtml?id=cat160130&navAction=jump

Did you actually click on the link? There are some adorable dresses. If not, try anything by BCBG or Laundry
http://shopping.yahoo.com/s:Dresses:4168-Brand=Laundry%20by%20Shelli%20Segal
http://www.edressme.com/laundry.html
http://www.edressme.com/no.html
http://www.edressme.com/bcbg.html

Answer 7

I wouldn't do anything at her wedding that you wouldn't want to be done at yours. Hear me out: if you wear something inappropriate or do something that makes her feel you are trying to ruin her wedding, she will do the exact same thing to you if you happen to marry your current boyfriend. (Since he's good friends with her future husband, I'm assuming you'll have to invite them to your wedding as well.) Think about that. Because you don't want her to be looking for revenge on your wedding day and trying to make it the worst day ever. Just don't stoop down to her level. Good luck.

Answer 8

I think you should just ignore her petty behavior and go dressed appropriately. There is no reason to wear something "attention grabbing" becuase it may get you the wrong type of attention. Be there to support your boyfriend, and thats all.

You dont have to like the girl, or even for that matter talk to her again after this point.

Answer 9

Always do not hate anybody. When you are hating somebody you are actually hating yourself. In hatred, anger jealousy, we are actully destroying our own real loving nature and choose to become savage creature. So love everyone. If it is difficult, practise tolerance and understand the other person's presonality and good qualities !

Answer 10

when you give her their wedding present make sure you put on it - to : her husbands name and "bride"...haha
i would def do what others have said before me. wear a sexy little black dress. go all out. get your hair done and makeup. then she'll know that "guest" doesnt really care about her either! nothing says "i hate you too" like black on a wedding day. plus you'll look better than her!