So If a guy is hitting on you how quick would you want him to ask you out. Should he ask you on a date that night or should he continue to flirt. After how long of a guy just flirting all the time would you get turned off or stop liking him. Would you eventually just ask him out?
2007-03-15 15:35:16 · 9 answers · asked by joe_68w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe a few days its a lttle bit of the chase-enjoy the humourand what goes with it its how we learn how the other one operates
2007-03-15 15:39:03 · answer #1 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't ask him and if you really like someone you can't "just stop liking" him the way you can turn off a water faucet. I would want him to ask me out immediately but that doesn't mean he would. Besides the wait and expectation of it all can be fun too. And there is no SHOULD he do this or SHOULD he do that. There are no rules in this. He SHOULD do what he feels like doing. Maybe, he is afraid of rejection. Maybe, he enjoys flirting but doesn't want to take the girl out. Me ask him out? NEVER. If he wants me he can just work for me because if he won't someone else will.
2007-03-15 22:43:34 · answer #2 · answered by Im Listening 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relatively quickly but flirting can be fun... if you arent going to see each other for a while then ask her that night...
if you'll see her tomorrow and the next day then wait a couple days... take the time to get to know her before asking her out.
but dont wait much longer than a week or two... that tends to make us think the guy has lost interest...
either way make sure that you know a little bit about her personality before you ask or else she will just think you are looking at her physically and thats not good.
best of luck in all you do
2007-03-15 22:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by runningballerina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like when a guy flirts with me, I think it keeps the relationship exiting, however, this is just me. I would say after the 3rd time you should ask her out. I am pretty open so I would ask the guy out too, but I do prefer he takes the initiative, it shows that he really likes me and he is truly interested.
2007-03-15 22:43:28 · answer #4 · answered by chilanga26lasvegas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting for a little while is fun and really adds excitement to the chase. I actually like 3 to 4 weeks of flirting before getting down to business. It's like foreplay to me.
2007-03-15 22:38:57 · answer #5 · answered by patti duke 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this depends, if you like this guy try flirting back, he'll probably ask you out way sooner. If you don't like him don't embaress him privately tell him to stop flirting and that you're not interested, that will give him the message. ALL THE BEST !!!
2007-03-15 22:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by karen w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like the man to ask me out and i will meet him there (if you have a car). Spending quality time with someone will eliminate a lot of waste of time. Especially when u go out u will find out things about that person u may or may not like.
2007-03-15 22:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heh..I'm married but if I wasn't, I suppose I'd like it rather quickly. n
2007-03-15 22:38:47 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not that nite!!! maby 2 or three nited later
2007-03-15 22:37:19 · answer #9 · answered by Rae Rae 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋