i talk to this girl and we talk as frriennds but like one night i spoke to her for 7 hours strait and we call each other for like 2 weeks strait etc. (i dont usually c her) and then after like a couple weeks she dosnt answer my text anymore then sometimes i text her back like a month later and she answers,
i wanted to know if this has anything to do with her "period" i mean could it be that when she is in her period she dosnt talk to me , is that how girls are?
does the period have anything to do with it, or with guy's?
or is it because of somthing els like she thinks she is puting herself down by talking to me 7 hours strait and sooooo much and she wants to play hard to get ?
THANX A LOT TO THOSE WHO ANSWER!
2007-03-15 15:33:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think she has someone else and when she gets bored,she talks to you
2007-03-15 15:37:04 · answer #1 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, I think that you are looking for excuses by saying it might be her period, that is highly unlikely. Women don't disappear into a vaccumm when they have their period, they continue on just as normal, because a period is just that, normal. It doesn't change the amount she will talk with you, or suddenly make her like a guy less.
It is most likely that she simply tapered off of talking with you because she is busy with school or other friends or family and doesn't have the same amount of time, or that she talked with you 2 weeks straight and then suddenly lost interest.
I am sorry to say that these things happen, people change their minds and sometimes it hurts but it just happens.
Try talking to her about it, call her or speak to her face to face. It is too easy to ignore an IM.
2007-03-15 15:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by meraphetamine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you're both talking with eachother as just friends for now, I wouldn't assume that she's playing hard to get. Friends have lives too. You can't expect her to just hangout and wait for you to call, right? Or same for her, that she can't expect you to hangout and wait for her to call you either.
I think it would be fair to ask a friend if they need space, or if they're doing okay and that you were concerned because you hadn't heard from them in a while...
At least that's what I do with my friends... guy friends too... I'm a straight-forward kinda girl, if you're upset with me, tell me. If you need to talk, let me know.
If I'm busy, I don't call back sometimes because I forget, which is horrible, I know. (I have a head injury and forget EVERYTHING)...
And no... that's not how a period goes... if I'm on my period I still talk to all my friends, guy or girl.
If you're interested in her as a girlfriend, maybe you could just be straight-forward with her, and ask her for a truthful answer... whether or not she's having trouble at home or if she's been busy.
Because either she really is busy or going through some stuff, or shes just too nice to kinda dump you, and is trying to let you down easy without hurting your feelings by separating herself...
I don't know what else to tell ya bub. Good luck with whatever is going on though.
Take it easy,
miR :)
2007-03-15 15:40:22 · answer #3 · answered by mir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eddie,
Hey I don't think that it would be her period. At most I think that she was just going through a problem with another guy and didn't want to get you involved or she felt bad that it was a different guy. Also I think that she is also playing hard to get in some sort of way. She might just wanna be friends too. Either way you should talk to her.
2007-03-15 15:45:28 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the period is one option, 2. she realised that you like her or something and she´s not really into you, 3. she got bored of the talkative thing, 4. she`s in love with you and she doesn`t know how to face it 5. she`s dating someone 6. she`s busy, but If she doesn`t want to see you don`t push things no means no, leave her she`ll call on you later you`ll see ;D luck!
2007-03-15 15:56:28 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Madison♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NONONO LOL any girl who says she's not talking cuz of her period is b.s.ing. she's probably trying to give u the msg to stop calling so much. just calm yourself and call her once in a while and don't talk for AGES and AGES...just talk for an hour or two and then say u gotta go do sumthing and leave. any girl who just decides to ignore u anytime is just not worthyour 7 hours on the phone anyway.
2007-03-15 15:40:08 · answer #6 · answered by decarvalhoangela 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe she just see you as a person of convenience. she could have been bored or just in need of some conversation at the moment. she has clearly stated that there will be nothing between you two so drop it and be her friend or leave her be your choice. it has nothing to do with being on a period because we still have to go through every day life while we're on!
2007-03-15 15:39:50 · answer #7 · answered by Snickerlicious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 05:01:35 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, no it wouldnt have anything to do with our period.
We may get a little moody, but it doesnt tongue tie us or make us go into hiding like a hermit. lol
Sounds like ur girl may have found someone else who had her attention.
She doesnt appear to have a romantic interest in u. If she did, she would attempt to contact u as much as u do her.
I would either ask her what her feelings are for u, or leave it like it is.....a friendship.
Sorry hun, but thats what i see.
I wish u luck.
2007-03-15 15:40:00 · answer #9 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that she is playing hard to get, u didnt mention if u have asked her out or anything like that so its probably a NO, its obviously not about her period. but i think that there is someone else in her life who did ask her out and and who sees her often and therfore she is avoiding to be incontact with you so that you wouldnt call her back anymore. sorry mate but thats what i think. well i hope its not that...but, why dont you ring her and ask her wat is going on why does she take long to answer you back. and G'luck
2007-03-15 15:41:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats kinda personal dont u think.anyways she is probaly going through rough things..I think periods is not the idea
2007-03-15 15:49:07 · answer #11 · answered by effie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋