OMG! there is like 2 people i know right now being dumb. They are saying im not a friend over some dumb reasons...i obviously get turned out to look like the bad person ALL THE TIME! I never did anything wrong to them, but i still get blamed for things...
what can i do?
Why are "they" SO obsessed with these dramatic things?
Why are they so obsessed over me?
What can i say to them to make them happy again, so they don't get obsessed about it?
2007-03-15 15:31:32 · 14 answers · asked by Love that baby butt xD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
blame is easy to be placed except for on oneself.perhaps a new crowd of friends is needed
2007-03-15 15:35:37 · answer #1 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your words: "...i obviously get turned out to look like the bad person ALL THE TIME! I never did anything wrong to them, but i still get blamed for things...
what can i do?"
If you're not exaggerating about "ALL THE TIME" then you are the common thread here. Maybe you are doing something that you aren't aware of. Take a good look into yourself.
2007-03-15 15:37:23 · answer #2 · answered by Elt 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may have to quite being such an angel and become more of a Satanist! Learn to gather evidence and support your opinions and life. Furthermore, get new friends who do not do this to you and start crushing people who refuse to respect you and your life!
2007-03-15 15:38:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. i've been through that soo many times. i've always turned out to be the bad person also. maybe they have been caught up into things like : making sure they were cool enough to be in the popular area , or they just feel like your not worth it. i know i dont know you, but they way you asked the question, sounded like you were concerned about your friends. and true friends always want to find a solution to help better them. you can take at least 10 minutes of their life, and be like hey i need to talk to you. dont explain yourself too much, because then they'll think your desperate for their friendship. show them how strong of a person you are,(if they dont listen) show them, that with out them your life goes smoothe, i know your probably going to cry if they dont except you, but cry at home, not infront of them, because if you cry infront of them, your giving them victory. dont let that happen. you seem like a nice person, so show them who you really are. but be like why r u acting like this? talk to them and then see what happens. but remember dont explain yourdself too much ok? and if they dont listen show them whose the better person. ok?
take care i hope things work out for you! :)
2007-03-15 15:43:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If we kept after the Dummy's? How would us smart people have any fun? Don't worry with `em. Besides, they sound like Kids, anyway. They'll get over it. They always do.
2007-03-15 15:36:17 · answer #5 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a favor and stay the hell away from them. Obviously they are drama people and you dont need that in your life. They NEVER change (I have a few of those in my hubby's family).
2007-03-15 15:36:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
r u sure u didnt do nething, if u didnt maybe they just want a reason not to be ur friend...o well they are dum...find new friends that dont think their the S**T
2007-03-15 15:42:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is absolutely nothing you can say to them that would please them if you want to continue being yourself. some people are just jealous over others and they can be friends. you will just have to determine if it is worth continuing a friendship with them
2007-03-15 15:36:20 · answer #8 · answered by Snickerlicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them to get a life and get outta yours like carlos mencia said det da dee
2007-03-15 15:36:25 · answer #9 · answered by crengle60 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and what is your question again??? Oh yea, dumb people and I guess drama.... Im sorry but this question itself is dramatic that I dont even know what your really asking.
2007-03-15 15:36:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋