My husband and I had a heart to heart about our teenagers how to handle them. They enjoy the internet but he put a password on the PC so that we choose when they go online. But he won't give me the password to me is this right???
2007-03-15 15:28:15 · 9 answers · asked by Sylvia T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No. In effect. he's treating you like you are one of the kids. Is he your father or your husband?
2007-03-15 15:32:25 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends....do you have a history of going behind his back and letting the kids do stuff that goes against a decision the two of you have made? If you've given him reason to not trust you, then it is more important to protect the kids than to give you the password, especially if you have a hard time telling the kids "no."
2007-03-15 22:49:38 · answer #2 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, good parenting means that the parents work hand-in-hand to teach the children to become good people. If you teach them, but dont show it, the whole point of parenting sort of goes down the drain unless your kids miraculously become perfect children even with bad parenting, which is unlikely. I suggest you guys talk about this and agree to agree.
2007-03-16 00:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by skinny piggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. Its not right i think..
Wel.. i don think a password is necessary to log on to the Net..
My dear... if ur kids wants to do a mistake, they will do so even if u are going to tie them up. Get it? wats the point of puttin a password wen ur kids can simply do it behind your back by surfing the net elsewhere and they can tel u that theu have extra lessons at school..?? U should let them grow up..
I saw my brother watching Porn in the net.. Then.. my mother, younger sis and i talked to him abt the bad and good of "it".. at least he have some knowledge in it.. he knows the limit to wat he is doing..
(i really hope uunderstand wat i am saying)
Be a friend to ur kid. Don't be a principal!!
2007-03-15 22:39:28 · answer #4 · answered by sUnseT 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are the mother, you have a right to know what the password is!
2007-03-15 22:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by pink9364 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not right! Unless of course you're addicted to Internet porn and poker sights I don't see what kind of reason he would have not to give you the password.
I would be pretty irritated if that was done to me. I think you should talk to him about it, and tell him it isn't right, you are his partner and his equal, not his inferior.
2007-03-15 23:15:34 · answer #6 · answered by Samantha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. He is relegating you to child status. I would be very miffed if my husband did this to me. He sounds extremely controlling. Perhaps it is something you should discuss with him?
2007-03-15 22:55:45 · answer #7 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it's not right maybe he has something to hide as well. i would sit him down and tell him how you feel and go from there.
2007-03-15 23:22:32 · answer #8 · answered by freedom fighter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no the two have to come together and agree
2007-03-15 23:20:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋