I'm sorry if this is long.
Basically, we're both in high school, and this is the first relationship for both of us.
It's been three months, we're at the hugging/sleep on shoulder stage, and that's as far as physical contact gets. In an emotional/mental sense we're incredibly close.
It all comes down to that his parents think he's too young to be in a relationship. (He's 15, I'm 16)
They're incredibly family oriented, and don't think he should be spending as much time as he is with friends, nevermind with 'a girl'
Neither of us is outgoing, and his parents are very controlling...
He's also not at all the type to disobey or ignore them, so I'm looking for any possible suggestions as to what can be done, Please.
2007-03-15 15:26:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
have a "GOOD" conversation with his parents,and let them know your really sweet and trustworthy.once you do that they may lighten up on you.
2007-03-15 15:33:19 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you both will be 18 soon, I would say to try to keep his parents happy as possible over the next couple of years.
At the same time you 2 can continue to grow as a couple, and when he is finally free to do as he wishes you should have a great relationship.
Just consider the time with his parents as a time for you to get to know each other better, and that the time will soon be here when you can be with each other without restrictions.
2007-03-15 15:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a parent myself, I would be worried about you guys having sex. They are also afraid he might lose his teen years to a girl. I know this might sound strange to you, but maybe you should spend time with his parents at his house so they can see how you interact with each other. If his parents feel you are seeing each other too much, remember it could just be their fears for their son. When I was 15, I dated a boy for 3 years and I regret not hanging out with my Friends more
2007-03-15 15:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by pink9364 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say what you would like to see happen so it's difficult to advise you. But whatever it is, what is your hurry to get there? You sound very close to him. Enjoy this time; things change.
2007-03-15 15:32:36 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a boyfriend who isn't a loser...i meaqn, do your parents put those restrictions on you? and if he was a REAL good boyfriend who really loved you then wouldn't he try and fight for you instead of just doing what his parents say?
2007-03-15 15:30:55 · answer #5 · answered by decarvalhoangela 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on group dinners, with you and him, his parents and your parents, and hope it goes well, and for each others parents to see how it is
you need to get them to trust you
if they have little "family fun" times, ask if you could be invited
2007-03-15 15:29:32 · answer #6 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he listens to his family there's nothing you can do. You can wait and mope around or move on.
2007-03-15 15:31:19 · answer #7 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋