Suicide...?

Question

I have been told by docters that I am very ill...
They didn't say whats wrong but I think it's bad.
My personal life has fallen apart and no-one seems to care for me.
My parents say they care for me but them and all the others that do just turn out as jerks...
If anyone has a good reason why I shouldn't plz tell.
I don't want to but it seems the only way out.

Answer 1

well i know everyone is gonna answer like this "i care" but the truth is they dont...i dont think u should kill yourself.....every moment matters.....you should adopt an animal that needs someone as much as you do and quit seeing that doctor....im not gonna say that i care b/c i dont think i do...but i did take time out of my life to help yours so i do care that much....i really do wish u the best...

kaitlyn

Answer 2

Some consider life something that should always give to them.

Some consider life something that they can give to it - thus, they can make it better or make it worse.

We all want to fall into the latter category...but it is often hard.

You're life sounds very hard, indeed, and I somewhat know the pain you are experiencing. Although some of us seem to have harder lives than others.

But I see something in your problem...a reason that should stop you from committing suicide. And it is this: life is being terrible to you, and you know it. So you're going to try and escape it by death. But this is your chance to escape and fight back...to make life better. Have you done anything to fight all this negativity? Have you tried at making your life any easier? You say that no one seems to care for you, but I can prove you wrong. I care for you right now, as a human to a human in distress. Although I do not know you, the right kind of people in mankind should and do care for one another! Watch all the people replying to you post saying the same thing: Don't commit suicide!

But if you cannot find anyone that does not care for you close by...then try and live life with what you have. I suppose what I'm trying to tell you is that perhaps the avenue of multiple friends is not where you should be travelling right now...perhaps you have some other destiny, one that you must find and conquer alone.

There is always something about life that is worth finding. Search until you find it, and when you find it, conquer it.

As for your illness, I do not know if it is terminal or not. But if it were, I think the doctors would tell you. And if it was very bad...fight it! Many people have fought illnesses and come out victorious! Sometimes even a heavy heart and despondency can influence and determine physical health.

But you don't ever want to commit suicide...then you're admitting defeat, and a human's goal is to win!!!

Hang in there!

Answer 3

Remind yourself that there are people in MUCH worse conditions than you. Life is what YOU make it. If the people in your life aren't satisfying you, then you need to cut ties with them and make new friends.

A church, a volunteer group, a group as school or something.. Try something totally new. Do something totally spontaneous. MAKE life worth it... because, trust me, it is.

Also, I don't know what you believe.. but death (as I see it) really isn't a way out. You don't know what happens to you after death, you can't control that... but at least you know and can control your life here on earth.

Plus, if you WERE gunna kill yourself, do it in a way that's worth it. Like set a record to eat yourself to death using chocolate. ;-P

ALSO: I just want to mention that feelings like you have AREN'T normal. And don't be ashamed to treat it as a disease and get some meds to control it. At least give it a shot. :)

Answer 4

There are alot of other ways out. Look for better friendships. If your parents will listen tell them how you feel, don't give up, because life gets better. Its hard when your young, your brain works differently, and things seem hopeless alot. But when you grow up things really do change, and its worth it to hang in there.

Answer 5

Listen manny! That is never the way out!!! Think of what you could be missing out on!! Life IS NOT FAIR!! But it IS WHAT WE MAKE OF IT!!!!!!! Get out there and build a new life for yourself!!!! Get inspired go search out storys about people who started from and with nothing and made a good happy life for themselves!! You dont have to end up like Bill Gates but just content and happy!!!

Dont give up on yourself or life!!!! I beg of you!!!!

Answer 6

it's my belief that God gave you life and HE should take it.
suicide is not the answer. it will make your friends and family mourn you forever. my mom completed suicide and it was very hard to try to get over. a death by suicide is not the same as a death that is not by one's own hands in a mourner's prospective. you should fight for your life and get to spend all the time you can with the parents that love you. don't do it. your parents do care for you i bet they are trying to hold themselves together and be strong for you so you don't know anything is the matter. you should talk to a nurse or doctor and get help from a psychologist. you need to cope with this and so does your family.

Answer 7

who cares what everyone says, the question is DO YOU CARE ABOUT YOURSELF? you should not do anything like that because you know deep down that you care about yourself and you would never hurt yourself because you have a great life ahead of you. you only live once, so show everyone that you have a life and your going to make the best out of it.

Answer 8

Your brain is not functioning properly, but given time, the right treatment, and your willingness to help yourself, that will all change. See http://teenline.org/ Phone (074) NEW TEEN and 1800 lifenet & http://www.suicideprevention/hotline.org

Answer 9

you need to get a grip, instead of trying to run away from everything, be a man take controll of your own life dont worry about what others think! its your life make it how you want to, dont do something as stupid as suicide, it doesnt get you anywhere!

Get a job, study, move outof home, stop feeling sorry for yourself trust me once you take controll of your life you will be fine!

Answer 10

suicide is not the anwser
find a GOOD docter that tells u what is worng
and find a physologist or sumthing
they can help put you together