I have only been married a few months and he called and told me that he did not care if I was married that he wanted to see me. He said for years my mother would not tell him how to get in touch with me and then all of a sudden she gave him my number and so he is calling me. He said that he has always loved me. I told him not to call me that I was married now. Did I do the right thing? I have feelings for him. What kind of guy would call now?
2007-03-15 14:32:12 · 12 answers · asked by formy p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I think you did the right thing. When you marry someone, you're promising to love them, not just to stay with them until someone bettter comes. Everyone once in a while, life gets complicated and this may seem hard. Feelings are a tricky thing, and I think part of that is why you're so confused right now. It's very possible to still be attracted to an old boyfriend, but what you have to remember is that it didn't work out once and you've accepted that and moved on with your life.
Forgetting this other man, are you happy with your husband? Has your relationship been good? I'm assuming that it has, because you love and care about each other enough to have gotten married. It sounds as if you really care about your husband (you probably wouldn't be this confused if you didn't). Think very carefully before doing anything that might hurt what the two of you have.
Good luck honey
2007-03-15 14:45:19 · answer #1 · answered by KatieBee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you just hate that, when you finally move on your past comes back in some shape or form. They only thing that I could do is tell you to be extremely careful with this situation do not let your temptations especially of the unknown cause you to make one of the biggest mistakes ever. I mean you know what you have (your husband) and you do not want to mess that up especially if he loves u but you do not want to lie to yourself and your heart because you do not want to live with that what if over your head, it all boils down to following your heart, and doing what is right for you. Also consider why you guys broke up in the first place and his reasons in wanting to meet up with you again? Also some things (people) are better off in the past and not turning back!
2007-03-15 14:41:19 · answer #2 · answered by Breann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he calls back again tell him that if anything could of happened in the past that it is in the past and there is no future for him and you. feelings or not your husband should be your first priority so you should also fill him in on the whole situation. Men tend to get outragous if they believe there is any kind of competition that there wife did not let them know about. Just be sure to make it known to this guy that you dont want anything to do with him anymore friends or otherwise and that you will be focusing on your own life. perhaps he should go get one of his own too.
but thats just what i think hopefully i helped you.
2007-03-15 14:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by billy_bong_horton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have feelings for some one else then why did you get married anyways he just called you cause he knows your married and he wants you as a booty call that's why he didn't call you when you were single so don't be a dumb *** and leave him alone
2007-03-15 14:37:41 · answer #4 · answered by i love mario !!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your husband stay away from this other guy it will be nothing but trouble if you don't. Your mom should not of given him your #. It's hard believe me I know but like I said if you love your husband leave it alone.
2007-03-15 14:38:33 · answer #5 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the kind who is still in love with you. if you are afriad to see him, you no way down deep that something besides a visit. Maybe you love him more than you love ur hubibe now, who nose? if ur happy with life rite now, dont see him, if u r questioning it, meet him for lunch or something, GOOD LUK!!!
2007-03-15 14:37:45 · answer #6 · answered by aggiegrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Egad
2007-03-15 14:36:37 · answer #7 · answered by Jerry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A stupid one. He should respect that you are married if he loves you that much.
2007-03-15 14:36:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband about it and if he doesn't leave you alone get a restraining order.
2007-03-15 14:37:48 · answer #9 · answered by sweetsmiles69@jennieask-me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a loser. If he doesn't quit calling, call the cops on his no good ***.
2007-03-15 14:43:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋