I've known these two girls that I'm friends with for a while now and we have hung out a lot these past few weeks, and I really like this girl but she dosen't seem to like me like that which is fine because we are still friends but is the reason why girls don't like me more than a friend because I'm too nice to them? I'm always available when they need a ride or just want to hang out because I like hanging out with them, I always pay for them which they sometimes offer to pay so they aren't using me. I've always been nice to girls, but sometimes I feel as though I'm being a pushover. My dad thinks I need to not be so interested in them, and just play it cool. But I don't want to reject hanging out with them especially if I don't have anything to do during that time. I always treat these girls like princesses. I drive a nice car (lexus) I'm decent looking, I'm tall, I'm probably one of the nicest people especially to girls, I have a good sense of humor, I am shy which is a drawback. thx
2007-03-15 14:30:18 · 7 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound exactly like my friend. Its because you aren;t agressive enough.
2007-03-15 14:38:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you the truth bro., you said you think you're too nice to these girls and that's why they don't respond to you, thing is do you have any sisters or girl cousins, ask yourself how you treat them? My point is ask yourself if you're too nice to them too or anybody else at all? the answer is no! Girls want to be treated normal, when your "too nice" it comes as being fake. I know is hard if you like these girls, but girls want you to be yourself, and when someone is "too nice" its not normal, and your not being yourself. There's nothing wrong with not always agreeing with a girl, or doing everything they want. You can still be nice and disagree etc.
2007-03-15 14:46:08 · answer #2 · answered by #1bob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They probably just don't value the things you are good at. Keep looking for a girl that wants a guy like you. It's apparently not them.
2007-03-15 14:35:08 · answer #3 · answered by GoodGuy53 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though these girls are using you. As long as you are not dating a girl, don't pay for everything she orders at a restaurant, for example. You sound like a good man; just be patient.
2007-03-15 14:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by rubyred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww you do sound like a sweetheart so don't change for no girl if you don't mind doing things for them then that's cool and if their your good friends ask them to set you up then you don't have to worry about asking someone and getting rejected
2007-03-15 14:34:53 · answer #5 · answered by i love mario !!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a great guy!! dont change urself in order to get more attention from a girl!! trust me, girls love sweet guys (although sometimes we go for bad boys) its the shy ones that we really love!!
good luck :)
PS dont change for any girl, she should like you for who you are inside!! (i kno that sounds really corny but its true!!)
2007-03-15 14:35:46 · answer #6 · answered by pointegurlie7706 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself or you will not be happy
2007-03-15 14:33:44 · answer #7 · answered by tasks mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋