2007-03-15 14:26:53 · 21 answers · asked by jugnee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure you can!
Love at first sight is real. Or can be. Because true love is from God. I'm a Christian, I believe in God! And for that reason I believe that there is love at first sight. God sometimes maybe lets people (like me) see right away who He intended them to love and marry.
Love is different with everyone because we are all different! You can't describe true love for anyone! Everyone's experience of loving or being in love is totally unique. Because we area all unique! There are no hard and fast rules in love. Sometimes love at first sight is true. Sometimes it's not. Sometimes you really love someone you've dated for 10 years. Sometimes you ddon't.
I am so tired of the people that say smugly, "i believe in lust at first sight" because they don't know. I don't have problems with lust, and I have experienced that feeling of "wow, look, there he is, the guy I was created for". I just looked at his eyes from the side and I got that feeling. I wasn't looking at his body at all.
Please believe me- that even if it hasn't happened to you, or never will, it is POSSIBLE
Please do not listen to these other people. Although they mean well, I know personally that there can be real, true, lasting love (not LUST or INFATUATION! Boy am I sick of those dumb words! People just use them to sound grownup and wierd and fancy shmancy! {not to "dis" you other folks, but that's what it seems like to me :)} at first meeting- and yes, even at first sight.
As to what it feels like... everyone is totally different. If you think you are in love, and you love someone very much, more than any one else, than you ARE in love- for the time being. You may, who knows, some day, find someone else who you will be able to love even more. Not because you didn't love the first one- you did, as much as you could at the time. But each new person you fall in love with you seem to be able to love more.
Who can say whether we are all in love a dozen times in our life, or if we only "really" love one of those people, or if we never "truly" loved any of them?
Love is different for every person, at every different time. Sometimes it makes you sad, sometime it makes you happy, sometime insecure, sometimes confident. No one knows. But if you think you're in love, then tell yourself you are and go with your emotions, whether you become mournfully melancholy or exuberantly happy. There is nothing sweeter than feeling something deeply and telling yourself you're in love, whether it's for an hour or a lifetime- or eternity.
I fell in love from first sight with someone I have only met twice in the past two years I still am. For many reasons in a long story, we can't contact each other, nor do we "date" so there isn't a questions of all that "faithfulness" junk. But I knew at the first second that I was made for him and someday God will see we marry and live happily ever after. Sometime I will type up the whole story and post it on every "love at first sight" page and question and blog in the whole wide internet.
Again, I am not saying that love at first sight is the only right kind of love. Maybe you will hate the person you eventually fall in love with! Maybe it will take you years to gradually love them! Who knows? I am not saying that it is the only true kind of love. With some people, it may take a while to fall in love with their soulmate. But love at first sight is so very possible! Sometimes the good Lord is kind enough to show you right away. Like he showed me.
The moment I saw him standing there, I knew all about him. His character- how kind and sweet he was, how helpful and patient. And don't say I was judging a book by its cover. Later in the day I met up with him again and talked to him for five hours at that wedding reception. And my first impression- that split second thought of "this is who I was created for and am meant to marry" was strengthened. And he is in my every thought and dream. I don't give a passing thought or glance to anyone else- it's just out of the question. I’ve only seen him only 3 times over the years. It’s been so long. But I still love him! I do! It’s real!
I fell in love when I was only 13. But that’s how old Juliet was, and it was love at first sight and no one questions her! No one says “Oh, Juliet was so dumb, she didn’t REALLY love romeo, she just killed herself because she THOUGHT she did”. Why should people say that about me?
There is love at first sight.
Not lust.
Not infatuation.
Not a crush.
Not a passing attraction.
Real, true, lasting, beautiful, perfect love.
Believe.
2007-03-16 16:05:57 · answer #1 · answered by nemo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi frnd,
This is not new. we are hearing 'love at first sight', 'love on phone', 'love on journey', u can also fell in love in chat but in first chat is little bit diffrent. you must be not aware of the cheating that goes on in net, or you are first time or new to chat or he/she might be your first person who chat with you so close.
this will be the wondering and very strange thing.if it really happens. because this is not a reasonable.and also i say this is a foolish thing
if it really happens i have no comments. mostly wht i say is be careful because it is the matter of heart and heart is very sensitive. before hurting your own heart make sure whether u r chatting with boy or girl.after that you can proceed.
nothing is impossible in this world everything happens.....
2007-03-15 16:23:17 · answer #2 · answered by individual 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is possible for some people because they are looking for acceptance and have love self esteem and more than likely are acting on emotions. I wouldn't recommend falling in love based on one chat because you are glutton for punishment. Seeing is believing in my book. Spending time and getting to know one another and all the other basics for falling in love. Don't set your standards low and settle just for sake of being in love.LOVE TAKES TIME!
2007-03-15 14:51:02 · answer #3 · answered by Aphreakywuman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i chat alot and if i believed everything i read in chat i'd be a very poor and lonely person. so if you have strong feelings, that's fine just don't jump the gun! wait till you meet and get to know each other!
2007-03-15 14:30:06 · answer #4 · answered by splenda sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if love at first site is possible why not first chat
2007-03-15 22:06:09 · answer #5 · answered by Ramesh M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sweetheart and if you feel like it its only because you feel a conncetion you believe you have never felt before. Give it some time and if the feelings last just as strong it could be love.
2007-03-15 14:30:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, cos you are in love with the idea of them, it is possibly just an infatuation, you can see that you both click after one conversation but do you really know the real them?
2007-03-18 18:18:29 · answer #7 · answered by Jasmina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OF COURSE!!! I found my INDIAN PRINCESS that way. But in your case ,no. All the chatting in the world is not going to help a loser like you,! Then again, maybe. At least they won't see your ugly face, you hockey puck!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-16 01:24:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pyar me sub kutch ho sakta hai.
Kyonki...Pyar Andhaa hai...Love can be at first sight....
first chat...important thing to note is that... You FALL in love. After falling you make sure you get up.
2007-03-15 14:38:10 · answer #9 · answered by vasudev s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not at all most of the people are fake while chatting its better not to take everything serious while doing chatting.chatting is meant just for fun thats it..........
2007-03-15 19:21:45 · answer #10 · answered by iyushi k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make love through chat: not reliable:
2007-03-15 14:57:55 · answer #11 · answered by ar.samy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋