You need to be…
confident
fit – equals more confidence (pride in yourself, and dedication)
social (yet another confident trait)
some girls have this quality...they are sexy without trying. But, it might not be them, so much as it is the guy looking at them. Basically I’m saying you have to “cater” to the guys. This may seem degrading, but both genders do it. Most people do it to a certain style of music. We abide by norms to fit into certain groups which we like. Lets admit many do the same for the opposite sex. Make sure you appear to have that quality the girls who go out with these guys have. They usually have something in common. Look at girls who don’t have boyfriends. Some of them aren’t unattractive. They probably just don’t have one of the things I listed above. If you can shape yourself into those three traits, you could get a lot of guys. Is my advice shallow? It may very well be. Some guys might not appreciate that. Is it true for the most part? I have no doubt.
2007-03-15 14:25:45
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answer #1
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answered by OrangeBunny 2
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Hi sweetheart.
First of all, let me reassure you that you do NOT need a man to comfort you. Too many women define themselves by the men they are with and feel they cannot be complete without one. Shame on our society for this!
If you want to find a man who will respect you and treat you like the wonderful person that you are, you have to first be comfortable in your own skin. You have to be secure within your own heart and know that though you may WANT a man by your side, you don't NEED one.
Relationships that are built on mutual love and respect, rather than on desire and desperation, are the ones that are built to last. Hang tight, love yourself...and the rest will fall into place.
Love and happiness to you!
2007-03-15 21:27:37
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answer #2
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answered by Cheryl 2
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1) don't seem desprate
2) never feel like you have to rely on a man
3) men are attracted to confidance
4) men like women who can care for themselves to a point
5)never exspect a man to always be there for the first few months to a year or so
6) never change for a man. A man needs to care for you AS you not someone else in your skin
2007-03-15 21:26:22
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answer #3
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answered by Gypsy 3
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you need to think what kind of person are you.....do you like to read a book? then try the library or books million.....do you like to work hard? then try walking around a construction site.... do you like coffee? try setting at Starbucks every day..... I am sure the right man will come your way.
2007-03-15 21:27:14
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answer #4
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answered by thats me 4
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The real answer is how to keep a man. When you ask that question, I will look for answers. I am apparently too good. :D
2007-03-15 21:25:06
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answer #5
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answered by intrigue899 3
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Try some of those dating sites like www.Match.com You should find success there.
2007-03-15 21:25:38
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answer #6
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answered by Anonymous
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Men are easy..
Provocative clothes..
Short skirts, let him get a peek at the goodies...
Lots of casual body contact..
Eye contact...
Stand very close and touch him...
Touch Touch Touch Touch...
2007-03-15 21:25:25
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answer #7
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answered by Anonymous
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men are not there to comfort us women. if they do it's a blessing. but baby if you're looking for a man so he can "do" for you then you're screwed. you should be looking for a man YOU can please. aslong as you got that little mental "list" of what a man has to be and do to be with you, then you will forever be alone.
2007-03-15 21:28:01
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answer #8
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answered by splenda sweet 2
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I could tell ya, but frankly, I'm actually afraid of what you might do with the information.
2007-03-15 21:26:56
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answered by Anonymous
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Hide behind a bush and make a sound like a vagina.
2007-03-15 21:25:42
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answered by Anonymous
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