My daughter who is 6 years old just got diagnosed with lukemia and I have no idea what to do with myself. I am crying myself to sleep and I never know what will happen next. Her hair is starting to fall out and her condition is getting worse. I think I just need some cheering up is all but I don't want to see her go. She is the only thing I have.
2007-03-15 14:19:47 · 12 answers · asked by jillibean2909 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
if she is the only thing u have then u are the only thing she has. imagine what will be she going through to see her mother in this state due to her. remember v luv our kids and our kids luv us too. so i suggest that for her happiness be little strong. tell her she is the most beautiful daughter any one ever had even if her hairs are falling.take leave from ur job for some time. i assume that u are teacher by profession. if yes remember what we teach are students. to be strong in all crisis.
spend as much time with her as much as u can afford to. make her feel special. don't let her think anything serious has happened to her. do whatever she likes most. these memories will be with u throughout ur life.
and the most important thing don't loose ur faith. there is a high success of recovery with people taking leukemia treatment. why think for the worse. have faith in god.
pray for her and i will too. i will definitely go to temple to pray for her.
and remember that u are not alone. u can reach me at any time at shalooaksingh@yahoo.co.in.
now my dear girl! get up! we have a little angel to take care of!
2007-03-16 01:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My God I am so sorry to hear about this! The only thing I could say is try to spend as much time with her as you can and make and do everything to bring her happiness and fulfill all her wishes buy her lots of presents and take her anyplace in the world she wants to visit. Be sure to get as much updates on the latest treatments and research from science magazines or university publishing as possible and dont hesitate to try them she has nothing to lose. Make every last day of her life special. May God bless you and your daughter. I will be praying for her!
2007-03-15 21:33:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not sure what youre asking but if you need cheering up then go see a funny movie or if you want to do something fun with your daughter then go play in the park or take her for a funday or a vacation to like disney world. Sorry about your daughter.
2007-03-15 21:27:12 · answer #3 · answered by Matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one thing that you have to remember is that your daughter is a precious gift from above and for some reason he wants her back. Now you as her mother have to cherish every moment that you've had with her and to cherish whatever time that you have left with her. Don't let her see you cry. You have to be strong for her. I've never lost a child and I hope that it never happens to me but I can empathize with you. I wouldn't know what to do if I lost one of my kids either. Just remember to keep your chin up at least for the sake of your child.
2007-03-15 21:27:21 · answer #4 · answered by jgantz07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow girl you gotta full plate!! Obviously your baby girl needs you to be strong, so maybe if you act strong you'll feel stronger. I don't know what your going through, my eyes started wellin just reading your question. I know this sounds corny but I feel connected to you now, and I will pray for your daughters succes story and your strength.
God Bless you & remember to take care of you too, cause that little lady needs you as much as you need her!
2007-03-15 21:57:59 · answer #5 · answered by ☆♥•´`•.¸ ;-) •´`•.¸ ♥☆ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry your daughter is sick. Just remember there is usually a good success rate with treatment for leukemia. I can't imagine what you are going through. The only thing I can even think may help is pray. Just let God know you are giving it to Him because you can't carry it all alone. You and your daughter will be in my prayers. Please let us know how she does.
2007-03-15 21:25:58 · answer #6 · answered by HarleyChic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear this
you must keep up a good front for your daughter
she needs all the support you can give her right now
try not to let her see you crying
shes only 6 and is probably coping better with it than you think
2007-03-15 21:25:36 · answer #7 · answered by caffsans 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be sad :) get glad
she will always be wit you and she probably doesnt lie seein her mom depressed. live life to the fullest. do adventures things with her , shave your head for fun! mae this the best times so when she is gone you can look back and smile at the good times and know you made alittle girls life special
2007-03-15 22:10:12 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Casey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your time is very precious now. Live in the moment. It sounds like your agonizing about the future, but she is here right now. Embrace this precious time with her now. You will have the strength to deal with tomorrow when it gets here, so please don't worry about tomorrow and just embrace today.
2007-03-15 21:44:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must stay strong for her. try getting in touch with a support group for parents and offer your help. it is good to be able to share grief with people who really understand and this would give you an outlet and a purpose.
2007-03-15 21:29:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋