I've been seeing this girl 4 like 2 months and i've done everything for her,buy her expensive things pay her light bill bring her food and medicine when she was sick,pay to get her hair and nails done,fill up her gas tank.Whatever she has needed i've given it to her,but when i ask her for something,and believe me it's notmuch,be on time for dates,watch me play baseball call me back in a certain amount of time,se can never do it it's like pullng teeth,she always has something else to do.I feel sometimes with all the things i do for her she should give in and do some things forme.I'm just getting sick of it,i would think of all t things i do 4 her she would be like" yea i'll go or yea i'll be on thime" but no.I mean I don't feel like she owes me anything.She's even admitted that she needs to be there for me more, but those were just words and not actions..
2007-03-15 14:17:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should confront her about how you feel, and you should give her a wake up call and say its her last chance to pull this together. You deserve respect and you aren't getting it.
2007-03-15 14:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. If you're doing everything for her and she's doing nothing back, then you probably don't have a fair relationship. She expects you to do everything but then she doesn't do anything for you. Both people are supposed to put in the effort in a relationship, and if she doesn't do little things like be on time for a date or watch you play baseball, then that's a sign that she doesn't really take it seriously. Maybe you might be more serious about her than she is about you.
2007-03-15 21:21:57 · answer #2 · answered by daniellelaura118 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you need to stop giving to much when you know that you're not getting the same amount back. Stop spending so much on her, its not helping. Money doesnt buy you love. She thinks that you probably have so much money to spend on her that you dont care, so she didnt feel like you want something back from her.
Well if your gf isnt making any effort to give you back the things you want her to do for you, then break up with her. If someone loved you, they would make an effort to do something they say that they will do for you.
2007-03-15 21:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is taking you for granted. Unfortunately, it also sounds like you are more into this relationship than she is. For a healthy relationship to work, there has to be give and take on both sides ... it's not fair to you to be the one doing all the time. Maybe you should back off a bit and see if she reacts .... then it would be a good opportunity to tell her how you feel and what your needs are. Good luck.
2007-03-15 21:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by anon2009 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh what a gold digger,dump her and go out with me,im just playing but im single though lol.ok first of all you know and now i know she is using you,.if she really wanted you she would care about that.you need a girl who really likes you im serious,rememder it takes to for a relationship.if you keep on with her ,you never know if she will find someone who gives her more things and money and she will dump you.look dont give her anything for a while and if you see that she doesent like it and complains ,then really dump her.save your money and give it to someone who really deserves it.good luck and dont let any woman play with your emotions.im sure you can do better than her.you need a woman who is simple and lovable who wont take you for granted
2007-03-15 21:31:07 · answer #5 · answered by ♥I_rock_you♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally know where you're coming from and the bad news is she is that way and you can either except it or move on...chicks are crazy sometime but the more you try to get her to be the way you want the more she will pull away from you...
Bottom line: I don't think she appreciates you or anything you've done for her and you should cut her lose...bang her best friend and rub it in her face!!!
2007-03-15 21:24:57 · answer #6 · answered by Dave B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is using you so get rid of her. My ex wife was exactly the same andended up bleeding me almost dry. I believe they could be twins seperated at birth.
2007-03-15 21:25:18 · answer #7 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should, i had the same thing with my boyfriend i would do everything for him and he just told me that i could not hang out with this oerson or that perosn.
Yes you should break up with her!!
2007-03-15 21:22:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i see you've already talked to her about the issue. if you haven't then you must. let her know exactly what you are telling us. if she still continues it and then maybe it's time to let go of her and find someone who can treat you with the proper respect and love that you deserve.
2007-03-15 21:30:24 · answer #9 · answered by citygirl18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude you should break up with, if she starts calling you back wanting to make up , then she's worth it, but if she doesn't then it's really not worth it, trust me, you can probably do a lot better....
2007-03-15 21:25:18 · answer #10 · answered by janier234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋