Please help me i'm CRYING i don't know what to do!?

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I'm very sorry this is so long I'm just VERY UPSET and need to let this out so please read!!!!

PLEASE I'M SO UPSET RIGHT NOW PLEASE!! i'm sorry i didn't mean for it to be this long i just need to let this all out!

PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO READ THIS PLEASE!! I AM CRYING SO MUCH I CAN BARLEY TYPE!!!!

I have two best friends "Tori" and "Rachel." I'm a senior in high school. Tori and i got into a fight in the beginning of the year. She made fun of me because i thought Abraham Lincoln was black! (HE IS BLACK!!) I know i am right! I accident "swung at her" and hit her in the face. She had to get ice but it was on accident. I apologized to her about a million times. After that she went around to the whole school and told everyone how I had hit her and people have been making fun of me ever since! I am crying all the time because of that! Anyways recently within the past month she did apologize for her actions and has been sticking up for me quite a bit.

…this is where all of the problems start…Tori, Rachel, and I was all supposed to go to prom together with a group of other people! We had to buy tickets this week. Rachel Told me Tori and her boyfriend and everyone else to buy tickets on Wednesday. That was the last day to buy tickets. We all agreed to bring our money then. Tuesday while we were walking up to the field house for track practice Rachel was talking really badly about Tori calling her dumb and etc. Little did we realize that Tori was right behind us. So we get into the field house and Rachel dropped the bomb on me that neither me nor Tori nor her boyfriend were invited to prom anymore. She told us that she had already filled her table with 10 people, the limo was full and the hotel was booked already. She apologized for forgetting to tell us all of this. I was crying hysterically. I don’t have many friends and Rachel is my only one true friend. Now at that time I couldn’t go to prom because of it.

Tori then flipped out at Rachel and told her that she heard everything that she had said about her while we were walking to the field house. She then told me that Rachel was talking really really badly about me! She told me that Rachel said she did not want to go to the college she got into because she found out I would be attending there too. Tori then admitted that she had not always been the “best friend to me” but was recently sticking up for me. (WHICH SHE HAS BEEN) and that’s the truth. Any who Rachel denies ever saying that. She told me why she would ever say a thing like that if she was rooming with me at college. Which makes sense? Rachel then said she hadn’t always said “nice” things about me but she would never say anything like that.

I don’t know what to do now!! I’m so upset…now Tori said she’s not going to prom and going to go to her boyfriends prom at his school because she wants nothing to do with Rachel and is upset by what Rachel had done and wants to avoid drama. Tori invited me to go with her and her boyfriend to Virginia the day of our prom.

But…then Rachel said she had enough room for me in the limo and such on Wednesday the day I was buying the tickets so now I am going to prom! But I’m still upset by what happened. She wouldn’t Allow Tori to come but Tori said she doesn’t care anymore because all of this is childish drama that she refuses to get involved in.

A recent conversation i had with Tori

Tori: not to bring up an argument or anything...but...why don't you trust and believe what i told you about Rachel?

Me: b/c i myself do not have proof and i cannot accuse someone without valid proof
i know about the talking behind the back thing

Me: but there is not like any certain occassion where i can pinpoint and say she lied to me
thats y

Me: unless you can pinpoint a certain occassion at which both you and i were present and she lied to me, then i dont have reason to accuse her

Tori: no offense or anything but are you THAT BLIND? that you cannot see that she has been lying i'm not trying to be mean or a jerk or anything I'm just trying to be a friend right now and i don't want to see you get hurt in the long run

Me: lying about what an instancego ahead im listening if u said that u were going to stay out then please DO SO

Tori: ok do you REALLY HONESTLY belive that every single time you ask her to hang out she is babysitting? Honestly think about it logically. How often can someone babysit? I work with her and MANY TIMES she would tell you that she's working when in reality she's NOT THERE! You even said it YOURSELF she picks her other friends over you! So why would you choose to be friends with someone like that?

Me: b/c the babysitting i do believe her about
the work - i have no idea and she said that she is going to put forth more of an effort to hang out with me

Me: and i realized i really should not be talking to you about this b/c its not your business
so either bring up another subj. or i leave

Tori: fine i'm done trying to help you! Do not come back to me in a week complaing about how she hurt your feelings then!

Answer 1

You think you have problems? people want me dead because of what I do for a living.

Answer 2

I should get 10 points for just reading this.LOL Abraham Lincoln is not black. He probably owned black slaves but he is not black. You were wrong for hitting her. You got rage in you girl!Ya ll need to stop that she say shiit! You are going to the prom now. That's good. I think you three need to come together and talk about how you guys feel about one another. If you guys can't come to an agreement maybe you guys just need to depart from each other. I once had a best friend in high school. We were friends from 8th to my freshman year in college. She heard me bad talking about her on the phone. (That three way shiit will mess you up.) She forgave me but things wasn't the same after that. Now I don't even know where she is, and don't care. When you go off to college; trust me you going to meet a whole lot of people. When you do you going to be like who is Rachel and Tori. Good Luck girl ;don't stress it. Friends come and go!

Answer 3

OK number one that was SO LONG i couldn't even finish reading it! I think you yourself should read-read what you wrote and realize how STUPID all of this sounds! It's such pointless drama that nobody needs to deal with. All 3 of you NEED to grow up and fast because in college people will not put up with your so called "drama"

point number 1: Abraham Lincoln IS NOT BLACK!!! that is the first thing you should realize.

Number 2. I think your friend Tori may have realized where her faults were. She realized that what she had done to you was wrong and was trying to make the best of it.

Rachel on the other hand sounds like a sleaze bag. Actually they both sound like sleaze bags.

No wait all 3 of you sound like sleaze bags that need to grow up and if i were Tori i wouldn't associate with you because she invited you to go with her when your other friend ditched YOU and now YOU are ditching her to go back with Rachel...

if your going to be a bad friend that's what you get in return bad friends. ..

Answer 4

first of all this is VERY LONG and it felt to me like a huge waste of my time but i will answer it anyways....you are stupid as hell to think that Abraham Lincoln is black we have NEVER had a black president! That's number one...number two how do you "accidentally" hit someone in the face to the point where they need ice? It doesn't seem logical....Anyways back to your friends....they both sound like looser. If you ask me i would not room with that girl Rachel after the crap she pulled. If you are planning to room with her at college i would leave her high and dry just like she tried to do with you at prom! That is not a real friend. I agree with your friend Tori in the fact that this is childish drama and i would drop you like a sack of potatoes if i were Tori. Though i do not agree with going around the whole school and starting rumors that's not really a good friend quality at least she is trying to defend your a** now. As for Rachel she sounds like a lieing sack of crap. But if i were you i'd drop both of them. If you want to keep one I'd go with Tori. That's my opinion but you see i would have never let it escalte to this i would have dropped both there A**es a long time ago!

Answer 5

are you crazy?! rachel's obviously tricking you!!!! Tori sounds like a REAL Friend. i know she hurt you about the hit thing, but there is kinda a reason cause why would she believe you about that, and you don't even believe her??she forgave you and even apologized for YOU hitting her!!!! Tori seems like a good friend, and Rachel is not going to be there for you all the time. she'll just break you "heart" a billion times sending u over the edge. Tori would pick you up again, and glue in the pieces. that's how I see it.

Answer 6

Go to prom and have a good time. try to stay away from both of those girls though. even try to make new friends and hang out w/ different groups. Neither one of the girls really seem like that good of friends. Even go to different colleges than them. you need to spread your wings and make new friends. It seems like you depend on these girls way too much. Get a job at a store or even join a group at school and make new, different groups of friends. Your senior year shouldn't be filled w/ so much friend drama. Friends shouldn't make fun of you or even talk bad about other friends to you. They should support you. Find good genuine friends, not these 2, especially Rachel. she's no good. But just try to branch out of this clique. You'll love having different types of friends. Especially in college, don't depend on them. go to the school u want to and make different friends. You'll be so much happier.

Answer 7

sure. basically were given finished, easily. My best buddy because the age of four (i'm 20 now) died in September in a automobile crash. this can be the first Christmas in 16 years that we haven't been at the same time. i respect and bypass over her soooo a lot. Been crying about all of it afternoon until eventually about 10 minutes in the past.

Answer 8

Wow..You have your hands full Im not going to be of much help except to tell you that this is your last year in high school and then you will be closing this chapter in your life and I know things are rough right now but to tell you the honest truth when I was in school I had close friends and now I never see them or talk to them, I have matured and therefor left my friends behind, go to the college YOU want to go to..you will be maiking new friends there and finding out that you dont NEED eother of them, if this is the way they are making you feel I would tell them all to grow up and I would stay clear of all of them..Id rather stay home from prom then to be placed in the middle of there pissin contest..Sounds to me like they are jealous of each other and they are trying to compete for your friendship.Why put yourself through all of that..Your better then that arnt you..? Frind a better class of friends, start going to Paneras and find a different class of people to hang with.. The kind that want to socialize and except all of your friends..Soon you will find a guy and wont have time for all your girlfriends anyways..just let it go and tell them to GROW UP.

Answer 9

sounds to me that neither of these girls are you're good friends. I wouldn't trust either of them. Tori has never been a good friend and now Rachel isn't either. Just go to the prom with Rachel and then maybe when you go back to school find new friends. These girls aren't worth your tears they're just bitches. as everyone in high school who love drama.

Answer 10

the only thing i can say about all that is it sounds like typical High school drama. It's your choice who you want to be friends with and no one elses. But where "rachel" said she she hasn't always said nice things about you does hint that she may be a backstaber/user. Becarful.